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I haven't left for a whole night or a whole day before. The longest I disapeared was after some stuff happened at work and my supervisor asked me if I needed to clear my head and I said yes and just walked around for a good solid hour and just zoned out I really don't remember where all I went...

because we care about them and don't really want to push them away but we tend to feel like we need to push them away to protect them from us.

You know you have ptsd when.... You know what the date is but really don't care because everyday lately just sucks

It's weird tonight I dint feel like going to sleep. I'm a little tired but I just don't feel like putting up with the hassle of trying to fall asleep

Ok I got ya. It's a tough thing it does have it's positives. But in my personal opinion you aren't in a good place if you have to drink to have any kind of emotions. It hasn't been until the last year that I have been ok with even having one alcoholic beverage. It's really tough, abd I remember...

I'm with you there @Lemontree I'm a the ptsd sufferer in the marriage but I think my wife would allow me more stuff than I do. With my meds and therapy I'm able to do pretty good most of the time. The one thing that she and I both don't let me get away with when I over react in anger when my...

I forgot about the hymn. My favorite is In the Garden, I remember getting my dad to sing it to my brother and I when we were little sometimes, but I mainly love it because it talks about being alone with Jesus and the greatness of just being with Jesus and walking and talking with him.

For me personally I would say just be personable and do what you can to help them feel comfortable talking to you. Each person will be different as I'm sure you have probably learned already.

Don't beat yourself up to much about him saying that he needs space. Speaking from experience at least I need time to think about my thoughts and process through them on my own. I know sometimes my wife would probably love for me to tell her what my thoughts are and how I'm processing through...

I'm with you there. It's amazing though when it comes to myself I tend to be kind of a coward I guess you could say but when it comes to somebody I love or care about I am very brave and defend them.

For me the one that hits home right now is Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go. I really like it the most because of the context surounding it because it is God telling Joshua to be...

You aren't being selfish at all I'm sure your husband would love to have everyday be a good day as well.

For me I like to go for a walk/run or work out in general. I also really enjoy photography but I have a hard time allowing myself time away from the wife and kids so I can go out and take some amazing pictures because I must admit with a three year old and a one year old getting to certain areas...

Maybe you could apologize for not really kissing him back and explain to him that you haven't been in a relationship of four years.

I can relate to you. For me this morning was just fine but towards the middle of the day it feels like my brain just turned off and I feel like I'm in this dismal place where there isn't anything positive. Try listening/singing your favorite worship song or reading your favorite passage. For me...

I'm glad that your there for him but please do me a favor and don't pay for any more alcohol for him. The reason he said he needed a drink before he told you his story is because right now it's probably to dificult for him to talk about it when he's sober and I know that when I have been...