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Yep, totally agree with snowflakes, he is disturbed, controlling, and if someone is that much interested in money matters that have nothing to do with him: then he is dangerous too. Anyone that mixes themselves into your private money matters has to be seen as a dangerous person.

You are putting yourself down. In my mind there are plenty of people that are damaged goods: prostitutes, pimps, corrupt police officers and security guards, rich bosses who are actively playing god: those are all damaged goods people. Victims of violence are the exact opposite: they are the...

I totally understand your way of thinking. There are just days we do not want to deal with it at all, like our brains need to just let go for a little while when we don't have to think, understand, or reason about this condition. I think what we really want in those times is to be able to just...

Yes, absolutely, whenever someone tortures another human being they are violating their rights. If they are a partner than that is domestic violence. It still amazes me how someone could claim that psychological terror warfare is not real abuse. Such abuse stays with you for the rest of your...

That is a very sad situation for you. You were so dedicated to make her life better, but there was nothing else you could have done. Don't blame yourself, now you need to concentrate on getting better yourself. When violent children grow up there is nothing a caretaker can do other then to get...

Oh boy, that is so tough, one of the toughest things I had to do, but if I would not have separated from my family they would have destroyed me, especially my father. Now that I know all of the selfish and outlandish expectations he had to continuously abuse me, I know that was one of the best...

Nothing wrong with that. I sewed myself a teddy bear and it is really nice. Has a better ability to calm me down than any of the dumb asses I encounter during the day.

Yep, been there many times. Sometimes I just get up and get work done, not much else I can do.

Yeah, I have stumbled upon that too, just a little waves, music, serotonin waves, or even lengthy documentaries help to side track the night mares. If the material is really interesting I can't sleep, then I find myself listening to it, hihi. But with the horrendous nightmares I have had I...

Yeah, that would suck, when money matters get in the way. That is so tough on patients, not sure how most psychiatrist handle that, but I would think that understanding should be possible, however they have to make a living too. As long as the prices are not outrageous, but with insurance...

A year and a half in therapy is actually not a long time, it blows my mind how long it really takes to heal the PTSD brain. So your therapist is right in just plowing away. That is not to say that is easy on the patient. Oh no sir, it is the toughest thing I have ever done in my life, getting...

Well, you need strong guidelines, a good road map of sorts, often we get stuck in addressing multiple problems at once. It might help to ask your psychiatrist what he thinks is the most important to be addressed. Depression if not treated can get deadly no doubt. In my opinion your...

Isn't that the most horrible thing? That a child has to fear death, the worst from their own parent? To this day I still suffer from that, and I hate people that show the same irrational and irrelevant anger about crap that does not even matter. There is something wimpy, weak about a man that...

Sounds like you are doing the exact right thing. I have only received harassment from others after they discovered that I have this condition. You are a person that is rarely available to PTSD sufferers. Your insight is wonderful. I sure wish there were more of you walking around, instead of the...

Oh, wow, did not know that other members here have discovered those too. They are just totally awesome. The different Hertz formulations offer healing within infinite ways. I just love them and often apply them. It is amazing what those can do for our brain.

I have encountered many situations in which I was not believed. People trying to mow me down with their cars, not being believed. Gang stalked for over 7 years, not being believed, harassed by male and female predators, not being believed. And then after studying up on that I found out...

I need a magic wand to make some really bad people disappear, have one of those? Not in a dangerous way of course, just would have to wave that magic wand and they would simply be gone, all of them, just like that...... all those criminals, just gone, out of my way so I would never ever have to...

It is rather common for me too to get mad when I can not keep my place clean. Often I can only clean a small part at a time. At times I get so frustrated I put everything on hold and clean my place. And then at the end of the day I notice that I still got only a part of the stuff cleaned, a lot...

Sounds complicated, the only thing I know is the fact that a strong foundation is needed when someone wants to really get together with a person that has PTSD. A solid footing is the only thing that can ensure success later on. Another thing is that I would never ever allow anyone to know...

Well, that kind of behavior just sounds very weird. Totally unstable person there, not sure you would want to be really friends with someone that is so unstable and seems to have such negative characteristics. You just have to keep in mind that someone like that can introduce some very...

You sound like a sincere person that is in pain. You are both very young and inexperience in such matters may also not help the both of you. The only thing you can really do is to perhaps write a letter, invite her to social media perhaps. Write a letter and then see if time works out that...

O.K. I might help from the therapists place, knowing that you are in a place where you get stuck a therapist would want to try to guide you back gently. I think that would be a positive gesture from your therapist attempting to make eye contact, but only if it is done in a caring way: meaning...

Yeah, those first years are the toughest. So much to work on in the first years. You can rest assured that as you go on you will be able to think more and more clearly. I have learned so much in the past years. I can spot abuse with the first letter in a sentence, I can spot a lie with the...

You actually have a lot more freedom in such matters than you may think. Since being stalked I have thought a lot about such matters, how I can prevent such info from being passed around. Use a company name for such employments, use alternate names such as short forms, use nick names, whatever...

Holy cow, certainly might want to think about legal help, not sure if they can do that. I was aware that the new administration will hit very soon, with many many distraught victims following. I lost employment like that before: You are not alone, I have been fired for the following personal...