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I’m really sorry this is happening for you. It must be incredibly difficult with no contact at all. We haven’t argued at all. That’s the funny thing. He is just not able to cope with the new job he has, coming back from war and me all at the same time. It is such flawed logic as surely I could...

So it has been since December 24 for me but he is texting me most days. He is isolating physically and he won’t call. I keep doing the same kind gestures. He made a joke/quip today. First one in 6 weeks. Maybe he is coming out the other side but I am not getting my hopes up. He hasn’t isolated...

I wish there was a love button on here @Buttercup! @Derek Des your posts really show so much compassion and care from you. It gives me a lot of hope because I know my fiancé is similar and I wish he could read your posts. Thank you again.

This is incredibly interesting. My Fiancé has rage and it comes out in a variety of ways but he would never be violent to me personally and he has all six of those things on your list @Sweetpea76. My man isn’t a VET, but he has been in warzones as a journalist and editor for many many years and...

Thank you so much @Snowflakes. This forum has been a god send the last 3-4 weeks and I am just now ready to start posting and sharing my story in the hope of getting some more insight. It is just such a welcoming place and we are lucky to have it, despite that luck coming from so many people...

This is my biggest struggle too. It is such a relief to find others here who are experiencing the same things because at least I know I am not crazy and that actually it is ok to feel this way.

This comment is ever so helpful, especially as I am currently experiencing a very long shut out. This message gave me a little bit of hope again as I have been trying to continue to act with kindness and offer small gestures where I can despite not having actually seen or speaking to my fiancé...