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@scout86 Thank you. It isn't so much that I want to know what his trauma is...but just the thought process that leads to that isolating or withdrawing, why they find that easier than to be around/talk to the people they care about, which you definitely helped explain. Any bits of insight I can...

I wasn't sure if I should start a new thread or just post follow-up questions here...figured this was the safer route. After I posted and got some input here, I talked to him very briefly that Friday. He didn't seem in the best of spirits, so I wasn't feeling like it was a good time to bring...

@Solara Thank you so much for your advice. It really helps to hear some thoughts from the other side of this. I am definitely up for giving him a chance and willing to wait a while longer. Worst case scenario, I think I may just have to step back and try to just be a friend to him, as I...

@scout86 We've talked about meeting...we've had plans on the books a couple of times and each time ended up cancelling (twice he cancelled, once I did). When we talk about it, he seems to simply repeat that he really wants to, and that we will soon, once he's feeling more stable. I had the...

Hello everyone. I'm new to the forum; been lurking and reading a lot lately. I decided perhaps it was time to introduce myself. My situation is a little bit different...probably unusual, even. I began talking to a guy several months ago (we met online) and we really hit it off right away...