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Yup I get it...I didn’t ask sooner, I don’t know how chequing (much less spell it) account works, I don’t know how to handle my finances, I should go back to school, I should e-transfer or better yet treat her like a drug dealer and cash only, do a lot more self talk, that I’m asking too much...

I’ve been ridiculed enough in this post I don’t dare start another

Thanks Grit for your response. For a full year of seeing her I’ve never had an issue with her cashing my cheque’s… About 2 months ago I brought up with my T that I thought things weren’t moving as fast as I liked them to. She said what if I provide you 6 months of free therapy and you can...

Yes you nailed it . Money has always been a trigger for me, my T also knows it but I will explore it more with her. Thanks for your input it was greatly appreciated.

Thanks @gealach for understanding & yes, there was some good that I took from the threads and there were some lessons learned as well. ? Have yourself a good night.

Maybe I should asked in my OP “if anyone experienced a similar situation”. I may have gotten carried away with my emotions but I don’t believe I deserved the condescending rhetoric of how a bank account/cheque works.

This has never been about not being able to afford therapy, balancing my checkbook or the education I should be receiving because of my “financial ignorance”. ? I never ever stated I could not afford or was freaked out about the money coming or going out of my account. At the end of the day she...

You are correct I have choices and cash it will be.

How is that any different? In fact hers requires more sensitivity.

I still don’t understand why it takes her 6 weeks to take a picture of my cheque’s and load them into her account. There is no need to physically go to a bank to deposit a cheque. I don’t see how giving her a cheque or e-transferring is any different, if I e-transfer she still has to accept the...

I’d like someone’s feedback...please. I’ve been seeing my therapist for over a year and recently she has stopped cashing my cheque’s. I currently have 4 outstanding cheque’s and my account is going to take a huge hit if she cashed them all at once. It’s got me so angry that I’m thinking of...

Thanks everyone… I think I'm going to continue with this trauma therapist and see where this leads me. I'm starting to think maybe my ex-therapist should have referred me to someone whom could of handled me better, instead of roaming in unchartered territory. I'm upset that I have to...

Yes she taught me some… but this new therapist taught me more in one session.

thanks Scout I agree with you Scout. I've tossed that one around multiple times. Regarding making things worse? I think it's unavoidable. They always tell you it gets worse before it gets better. That being said, I wish she would have had the skills to get me past the body memories. Scout...

:) Thanks Unicorn for the 'pump me up' response I think in the back of my mind I was thinking what you're saying. By th by, I really don't consider myself brave. Regarding my old therapist taking me back, she probably would. I texted her after our lasting session saying… 'thanks for being...

I've been seeing a therapist for the last 2 years. When I initially started with her she told me she wasn't a trauma therapist but could help me, that the connection between us was more important than her having the trauma skills. Fast forward to now…we've had a great connection, best therapist...

i'll ask. My outside does not portrait my insides at all and maybe that is where the confusion lies

I've been hot and cold lately about therapy and the lack of empathy/sympathy that my therapist is showing. I've seen her for the better part of two years. I've recently been digging through some very traumatic history and verbalizing it with her. I would have expected her to respond to some of...