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@ground crew .. I post questions and concerns about life and you take it personally BECAUSE YOU DONT HAVE THE ANSWERS. So let the grown ups talk strategy, eh?

@ground crew yes, yes, yes, we're all driven by nature to create new little humans and continue the circle of life. But we have big enough brains to know instincts from intelligence, so why continue? You're making it sound like selfishness is the driving point .. I have a big brain and I show...

@ThursdayZimBobWayz jealousy sucks!! It's awful. I find that learning to be jaded or to stop caring helps some. I try to make sure I'm not viewing the world through sugar coated eyes and find understanding for why people do what they do. The more I search, the more I hate people. It's just an...

Great!! @Kefira i messaged you because I wasn't sure what a PM was.. Lol. I'd love to hear your input!!

@Anrish yeah, I really think you're right about sex revealing things about your partner!! Deeper things that you just wouldn't know otherwise. Because of the principles of "purity" I have been married twice.. When I lost my virginity, I spent my (first) wedding night bawling my eyes out in the...

@KwanYingirl ..also :) I believe in premarital sex now, because I don't believe marriage. Maybe if my significant other was in another country and that was the only way we could be together, or something.

@KwanYingirl Thank you :) I feel like snagging a book on Buddhism could help me continue my search for wisdom and purpose. I might just do that today :) I've been really needing purpose!! It's so hard to go from Christianity to nothing.. Especially if you're a driven person caring more about...

And like I said :) I'm looking for life advice from people who don't believe in God. I don't mean that offensively, it's just a whole other perspective. And if you're worried about my soul, it's covered. I've got enough people praying for my soul, calling me, coming into my work, and treating...

You sound like me a year ago :) @itsKismet .. I challenged the idea of religion for a very long time (excluding God in the process) .. We believed in the "no sex before marriage rule" for personal reasons that backed up what the bible had to say. That whole thing just sent me into a deeper...

Unfortunately, this is not about amazing R.E.M. songs. About 3 years ago, I married a man who, I found out a year and a half into the marriage was using me to escape his homosexuality. We were religious, and he tried not to believe in it. I loved him deeper than any human being I had ever...

If this is absolutely true.. Than why should anyone be in a committed relationship? Is this why the higher a woman's IQ, the less likely she is to get married and settle down? You either want to be with a woman, or you don't. That's messed up if all men are saying one thing and doing another...

I'm not trying to make an argument. @Anarchy .. I'm asking you to help me believe. When I was a Christian, my mind was so disciplined for their form of purity, that I never looked at a man like that unless I was with him. I had to learn to check guys out. I'm still learning. Because I was...

@Anarchy !! I love it.. I love the scientific response.. And the different point of view!! I want to offer you a challenge to back your theory up. Give me a link or article(by a female) or a way to contact a female that will back this up. It's always the guys who tell me this sort of thing. If...

Hey my reply posted weird.. But it's there!! You have to click on me quoting you to open it!!

Hey:) @Unraveling1 That's awful!! It's a terrible feeling to have your dog messed with. Animals are so innocent and can't tell you what's going on. I'm sorry that happened to you. Especially since you yelled and they didn't respond. Did they hear you? I would let your husband talk to them...

@ihateusernames yeah, I think you're totally right!! I've just been with too many scoundrels who keep up the relationship like that just because the girl likes to flirt with them. It's like, keeping a bookmark in a place in case you go back to that book. Which tells me how seriously they took...

@ground crew sorry to hear about all that!! And I think your right. Body language will very much attract the right or wrong people. We're very primitive in that way. I really appreciate your impute. You've been very insightful.

Why do you think that comes about? @ground crew

Huh. That's a great analogy @ground crew !! And it is because of tons of negative experience that women have a hard time with this. I mean, I really work hard to give the benefit of the doubt and usually get screwed over.

Welcome @prettykitty !!

@Anrish thanks again for your reply!! I'm literally looking for any job right now. Call centers aren't even calling me back. It's bad.. I have an event bartending business, but i haven't gotten a gig in 2 months. My boyfriend is supportive of me having hobbies.. But the ones I'm into are very...

@intuition2015 welcome!!

@itsKismet i know I do!! It's from years of my intuition kicking in, and I ignored it.. Then it turned to anxiety and paranoia. I broke my intuition. Lol. Even if it goes off now, my anxiety kicks in right away and confusion sets in about it because of tons of past manipulation. So I don't...

Sounds terrible!! And of course you can <3 I hope your day gets better!!

Sweet dreams!!