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I cannot say this in English. I think he has PTSD with Zwangsgedanken (=“OCD thoughts“, so a bit similar to OCD) but his diagnosis is PTSD and actually he wanted to discuss this and was told it was normal in PTSD like you have that kind of thoughts and he always was like “really?“ and then the...

Well... I am not 100 percent convinced. I am not a medical expert. In my country people are being treated with hydroxycholoroquine early as far as I know and the mortality is at five percent of all known cases. Actually the discussion goes in the direction if treatment with hydroxycholoroquine...

Hey. I hope you all have a great 4th if July (and I hope the ones who hate it have at least an okay 4th of July). @Ronin Can yo explain “act like a team mate“, what would a team mate do different than me. For example: somebody got infected with the coronavirus/fears he got infected with the...

Okay. I see. My vet actual likes standing behind the day curtain watching what’s going on outside - like “?, I can see you but you cannot see me“ and he also likes repairing/improving/washing/hoovering the car but then - I know what you mean - for example I would make no sense discussing with...

Thanks everybody. @Sweetpea76 Thats different with mine then. Mine likes discussing stressful topics better if he is looking out of the window or under the hood of a vehicle. @Friday Can you give an example of time and place being important? So breast and penis are exposed when they are...

Thanks for sharing @Sweetpea76 - so what does he do if you mention this? A bit similar with mine. I think I told you he is a bit hard of hearing and he totally doesn’t like anybody to notice/me to mention it in front of others. Why not? God only knows. But one of the easiest ways to really piss...

Yes, he said like feeling detached, like being unable to connect with the people he loves, like being different. He said like they guy in Christopher Robin feels... but a bit difficult to understand what the guy in Christopher Robin might feel like but clearly he is feeling sort of isolated. Act...

May I ask you which the things you don’t say around your vet are?

Actually my vet cannot talk about it. I mean he tried like several times and then stuttered and fell silent... and then I didn’t say anything. I saw it hurt him talking about that. I didn’t want to hurt him just to get information from him. So I told him he doesn’t need to talk about that now...

My guy wrote me a letter this night, but didn’t want to discuss because he said he needed to work. Basically said he was sorry cause he was mean. He felt sort of - How do you call the opposite of “under amour“ in your language? Plus his stomach hurt. Plus he sort of had to fight back his tears...

My vet he told me of the shadow land like a dark place and there are no words for the things happening there, like Christopher Robin in the movie Christopher Robin is there with one leg and it’s the reason why he cannot communicate with his family and us detached from them. Actually I wanted to...

Actually he was not yelling. Sorry, not sure if mad at me means yelling in English. I just wanted to say he got angry. He was sort of calm. Long story of what happened: He needed to cough and was visibly stressed. I told him “It’s okay“. He asked me to hold him. First when I hugged him he gave a...

@Ronin and @Sweetpea76 thanks so much (((hug))). All of this sucks a lot. Hard to explain but he is very, very stressed every time he needs to cough... he tries to hide it, but I notice... and i don’t know what to do and just wanted to be nice.

It’s good you say this because I wasn’t sure. He basically compared me to some of our friends how they are far more respectful and less backstabbing and always have his back but that I don’t have his six. Makes me feel underapreciated.... I mean that doesn’t happen often. I wonder what they...

My wanted to be hold/hugged, was telling me that he is feeling sad and stressed and frightened and I told him that this must be very bad for him and that I am sorry he is going through that. Then he got mad at me, told me I pity him, I disrespect him (like I ALWAYS do. ALWAAAAYS according to...

Our four children are much younger than your son and we aren’t in a full lockdown any longer where we live... my son who is in primary school never did the homework all alone but I did traditional homeschool and taught him and other kids (as well as the siblings) like a teacher does. However the...

Oh yes. I miss fun and socializing a lot. I think camping is pretty safe as long as you camp in the woods and not on a camping site. Meanwhile my vet still has a little cough and he is stressed. I notice he s stressed everything he coughs. He currently doesn’t really have somebody to talk to...

So my vet tested negative for corona = he doesn’t have corona. He had a small nervous breakdown than because this is all so horrible for him and he is convinced we will all catch it soon. It’s scary here because we have more local spread again. There used to be only few cars popping up but now...

We learned that it is possible to swab yourself at home now and have it analyzed by a doctor and my guy decided to thar he will go that route.

My vet has a fever and a cough. He didn’t mix with other people, we didn’t mix with many other people too and none of the rest of us is ill. We do not know where that comes from. He still works from home and only went out to go jogging but only on his own and after dark when he didn’t meet many...

I think I would call her and give her my a piece of my mind. But that’s just me. Your choice. My guy, just lie your J. is a protector and it is difficult for him when there is something he cannot change just like this pandemic... and we really do not have the tools to protect our family (like I...

@Friday I might have gotten you wrong. I thought you were saying: “A pandemic is just like being deployed and the most common and helpful response is going “OMG, were all gonna die“ just as it is when you are deployed and there can be nothing like a new normal. Let’s just panic instead“. Sorry...

We have a “rally point“ too (if understand the meaning of the word correctly) but currently cannot go there. In our country children have the obligation to be in school and while schooling was paused for the worst part of the epidemic now schools have reopened and we have to send our oldest to...

@Friday I agree that people are going to die, but hopefully none of our loved ones. Where I am from there are about 500 new infections every day, let’s say it stays like this and let’s say the pandemic stays around for two years. That would mean that an additional 365.000 Germans would catch...

Which news have you been hiding? About the corona pandemic or about the riots? Thanks God we do not have riots where I am from. In fact the rate of crime and any kind of violence has strongly declined since the pandemic started. It must be very scary with those riots. How did he react?