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I am sorry for your loss.

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Welcome Cassie, You have endured a lot. I hope you find peace and healing.

I just read the link you provided Philippa. Glad to know some people have escaped. I hope they shut it all down really soon.

Yes I understand. Gluten is in everything! Lots of appreciation to anyone who has to live with out it. All the best Emi

All of the comments ive read on facebook links are racially or politically motivated. Im just thinking about the victims. Its been 3 hours and they are all still in there. WTF is going on.

Yes I've witnessed lots of abuse. I do still feel guilty about a few things but learning to live with that now. When faced with the possiblity of doing something about it as an adult I've been more likely. to intervene.

I was just reading on facebook. I really wish they would get the media out of there right now.

Radise, I'm glad you liked your secret santa gift even if you missed the event. I hope I can be involved next year. It sounds like fun.

Firstly, Id be looking for a more appropriate outlet for the anger before it gets to the point of hitting someone. It is very important that it never happens again. Its not only abusive but also illegal and if gets out of hand could ruin your marriage. If you feel like you are not being heard...

Maybe there should be an international 'Report your rape day'. Given the number of rapes that go unreported, legal systems would be flooded with hundreds of thousands of claims to sort through. Whether they had a good case or not, rape victims could stand together instead of trying to survive in...

You are really strong to do this.

When I began processing my trauma all of the feelings associated with it came flooding back. I was very much living in that time again. I was constantly being triggered by anything that vaguely reminded me of the abuse. It did get worse and eventually after a lot of time and therapy it got...

You might not have PTSD or clinical depression but that doesn't mean your feelings are any less important than his. By the sounds of it you could use a little care at the monent too. I'm coming to realize that supporters do it really tough and it makes me question how I've treated my own partner...

Its terrible that you are having these dreams. I would suspect that they will leave you once you work through the feelings that accompany them. Hope you are able to find your peace.

I agree that gender plays little part and that individuial response is subjective. BTW true feminism is about Men and Women having equal rights and opportunities. No man hating.

A friend of mine hosts wwoofers on her farm. It is an excellent program. Free food and accommodation In exchange for help around the farm. It is regulated through an agency so you have that extra layer of protection. I've been in homeless too. I remember the bottomless pit of emptiness and...

Solara you make some excellent points. I think my next step is actually going to be looking at how I value myself. Scout86 I really don't understand how love and sex can be the same thing. I express and experience love in many ways, but I do not associate it with sex at all. I realise this is...

This is just something I have observed about myself and wondered if others did the same.

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How did you get on with this? I have a lot of memory loss from around the time my daughter was a baby / toddler. Most of the memories are gone, both good and bad. It upsets me a lot.

I have heard something along the lines of "rule of thumb" referring to an old law that a husband could beat his wife with a piece of wood provided it was no thicker than the width of his thumb. Not sure how much truth there is to it. I've mainly heard Anthony's definition. Next time I'm in the...

Yes seek a second opinion! This is your life. It is important

Hmm I don't know about this but I am trying to figure out what is triggering me to disassociate so often at the moment. I've been paying close attention and keeping a diary. Since then I'm starting to notice some patterns which weren't otherwise obvious to me. Would it be helpful for you to keep...

That is so creepy! You did the right thing in following your instincts and not saying 'no'. I think it was the best thing to keep you safe at the time. You have handled the whole situation very well. I'm glad that the company are going taking this very seriously. If he was released on a...