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Yes, we established boundaries. Unfortunately, she always breaks them. She has awoken and she is off the bat trying to make me feel bad for her breaking the boundaries. It's hard because any notion of her going towards a healthier path causes her anxiety. We're both young and I'm just worried...

Hi, It's been awhile since I've been in the threads. I'm in limbo and could use all the advice. My girlfriend and I have been taking a break from alcohol. I lose my patience when drunk and she gets in a dark place and pushes my buttons. So we decided no more drinking period. A few days ago a...

Honestly, that is what I've noticed the longer we've been together. That's why I'm willing to work it out with her and see what her values and morales are after she has seen help so I can gauge if us being together will fit together in general. Sometimes she scares me and i feel bad bc she will...

One thing I found tricky is she also has issues with the feeling of being abandoned. So its very hard to feel confident in leaving her alone at times. Thank you for your replies bc I can now see how before I would have fueled it by staying and trying to talk it out first before calming down. I...

Thank you for the response. It's sad but i was thinking a relationship is just hurting her right now too. I've tried calmly as possible but even that's just too much. I even tried writing a letter with because she's more comfortable writing and it hasn't been breaking down the communication...

Hi, I'm greatly concerned and new to having a partner with ptsd. My relationship is reaching a dangerous point because my partner who suffers from ptsd is starting to hurt me and its causing my patience to be short at times now. She faced different types abuse from past boyfriends and...