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Yeah, thanks Tosh. I understand what you're saying now. That's actually been really helpful :) I'll remember this in the future

"You are absolutly right about her not getting help until she wants it, but be careful that you are not enabling her not to get help" How do you mean?

Thanks Tosh. I know quite a lot about PTSD. I've been doing research on it and she talks to me about what happens. I'm not a therapist but I've read advice online (this site's been great for answering a few questions). I know it's not curable, but it can be relieved right? I'm sure she's being...

Thanks tosh, I do :) I want her to see a therapist, but I can't force her to. It's something she's got to decide for herself. To be honest, Out of all the stress and near-suicide I talked about, at the end I actually really helped her change the way she looked at herself. Afterwards She was...

Sorry, this is a spare e-mail account I made a while ago, so the age might be wrong. I am 20 :) I know, she doesn't want to seek a therapist. I'm like the only one she talks to. I'm not obtuse or anything; I don't force her to say anything. I just talk to her about it. I don't push her away, I...

Mate I feel the same way as you. It's painful; we're both empathic by nature. The trouble is there's not a lot we can do. Don't take it personally that she's pushing you away. She will throw walls up against you and avoid you. I don't know the intricacies of your relationship, but you're doing...

I'm not quite sure what to expect back, but I guess I'll just write. I'm 20 years old and in a relationship with my girlfriend who is a sufferer of PTSD. She's been through some horrible stuff; I won't say what out of decency. Often we're alright. Sometimes it's great! we've got a really...