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My partner and I had been on and then off over the last 4 or more years. I am currently 21 weeks pregnant and am trying now to work out a solid base for both of us to parent the baby the best we can. I want to build a relationship to enable us to raise a baby in a safe happy environment ... I’m...

@Zoogal thank you yes I am. I’ve removed myself from the situation until Ive had a good hard think about what’s best for me and bubs!!! I appreciate you asking!! X

He mentioned a few messages I had been sent word for word and a photo that was sent into a group chat. Then I started googling how to mirror WhatsApp and it showed the the screenshot. U do it in settings and WhatsApp/web browser There’s a barcode to scan then it hooks my WhatsApp up to a...

i Actually don’t know what to do. Obviously baby is a big staying factor but I’m seriously not sure if this is something I can forgive????

It gets more weird. I didn’t even know this was possible but he has my WhatsApp linked to a desktop WhatsApp web. Which will have allowed him to monitor all my texts!!!!!!! I think this is a tough one to get past. Surely this is a form of domestic abuse. That’s private and personal stuff and he...

It’s got worse... this morning when he came home from nightshift you could visibly see a wet footprint on our front step. He’s actually accusing me of having a man here and saying it’s a mans footprint!!!! I have promised him on everything there definitely wasn’t but he’s gone to bed in a huff...

My partner and I had issues last year. We both told stupid lies and I thought when we agreed that it was wrong but put it in the past. My bf doesn’t like me chatting to other males eg work colleagues etc so I make sure I don’t. Tonight my sister had a few people to her house few people from...

Does anyone else feel initiating sex put pressure on a sufferer ?? I have brought our sex life up to my other half before and my other half gets a bit flustered at this topic. . Do you recommend just to go on the sufferers lead?

@Jay02 , haven’t been on for a catch up as I was working all day yesterday... I think the fact that you are asking for advice is a start. Try not to be too hard on urself either, learn from it! I also agree it’s a slight overreaction on your friends behalf and it’s likely she will too calm down...

Thanks for the words sweetpea. It helps to hear that!!

My partner is a sufferer and we have been together for now on 5 years. Like all relationships We have had our ups and downs. The latter part of Last year we split for two months and we talked things over and worked things out. (Started couples counselling) I’m unsure if I’m just at burn out...

I do a monthly session with my vet and the T. My other half attends weekly at the minute. Today my partner began discussing emdr. He attempted this before and each time after from what I took he wasn’t ready to continue and has been putting it off. I understand that the T doesn’t want to...

Thanks for the replies. I appreciate all the advice. I know I should never have denied replying to the text. Of course that’s going to make his trust issues worse. There’s no excuse for that. The worst feeling in the world is when u love someone and have invested so much effort and energy into...

Sorry If this seems like a stupid question. I kind of feel like my partner is controlling, he has serious trust issues and I’m wondering is this part of PTSD or is this just his underlying personality? We have recently got back together and he gave me all the empty promises; he’d go back to...

9/10 I’m good with dealing with my sh*t, plus his daemons, plus life nonsense that is always there to test you.... This weekend I don’t know what it is... if I’m being honest to myself it’s 99.5% hormones. But I’m so sick of being flat at the bottom of my S.O’s priority pile... Anyone else...

My partner and I were having a really deep conversation one evening and this subject came up. I asked was it an intentional thing or did he even realise he was doing it. He didn’t see that he was doing it but kinda explained it as; it’s easy to keep that mask on for an hour with your friends...

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Hi all just wanted to ask if any sufferers out there ever use essentials oils. My partner Thinks using things like this is a lot of nonsense. The last time he was in therapy his T discussed the power of using smells; Finding a smell and putting it on the likes of a handkerchief using it when...

I’m kind of in a similar position as you. My partner and I were together 4 years. Basically he accused me of sleeping with someone from my work. (I actually wasn’t or haven’t cheated on him but he is extremely insecure) So to cut a long story short he admitted that he’s been checking my phone...

No things like this over the last few years had come up maybe 4 times. Eg talking to a man in the gym, he’d see that and assume that we were flirting when actually it was just general chit chat. Then he’d blow It out of proportion and actually appear to believe it’s true. Or at a birthday...

Before was fine. He would often not communicate very well about his feelings etc which I found difficult as I didn’t know where he was at. But sexually we were very compatible, we were very loving and affectionate... like everyone we had disagreements and occasionally bickered.

so my partner and I were together for a number of years. An evening I was sleeping and my phone was downstairs he checked my phone. An old guy from work sent me a random text saying something about me being perfect.. I hadn’t replied or anything. I assumed he was drinking alcohol and sent a...

No he had PTSD when we met. He was really open and flitted in and out of treatment. He’s not in treatment at the minute. Seems to be on some self destructive mode at the minute and no amount of asking him would change his mind. He was just him. And I remember these stints before but much...

Hi all. My partner and I have been together for 5 turbulent years... but for the most part we have enjoyed each other’s company. Something has washed over me the last few months and I am almost afraid to sound selfish. No major event such as betrayal or anything like that has occurred. Long...

@Buttercup Flight... he hasn’t packed up his stuff and left. I just mean as in fight/flight.. he hasnt come to bed a couple of nights in a row, when I asked him what was wrong he said he needed some space. Staying up late at night and sleeping late into the day. he’s not a massive socialiser...