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My fear is that she trusts me. Yes when pulling away her actions show differently but not only has she said so count less times but also her actions of coming back repeatedly for that amount of time and telling me those secrets and fears and wants (which sadly she has given up on) shows she...

Yes and also some of the things she has done to try to numb, cope with, the issues caused by the abuse. (I call themA symptom) I'll use myself as an example to not anger anyone. My father was very abuse physically and emotionally. My house without my entire childhood was chaos, insults, and...

3 questions: first there was no contact from either of us for almost 2 weeks when the charges were filed. See part of what I did not write had to do with her father. Being that he is a minister and how he handled her abuse and other situations was not biblical so for his actions, he was facing...

Not according to the law. I didn't write it. I have no interest in agueing. And she herself said when I questioned her the other day in court she did not fear me. Or think I would ever hurt her. There is alot more to the situation then I wrote as I only wrote about what I needed advice on, I did...

This is something serious not only to me but also others. I very much appreciate real honest responses. I have to make this decision and it is not an easy one to know what is best, and I wish it only effected me, but it doesn't. Here is the spot I'm in...Say nothing do nothing and walk away...

Ok reading is not a strong point with a few here. No stalking charge. Yes trial about me her symptoms are what proves innocence as a normal person does not feel fear of harm by none threatening, email. And no not multiple ones A day or anything like that. So stick only to the question as...

And with the judge what I wanted and what angered me is the lack of understanding or thinking that a person's past has no bearing on them in the present. Mental issues are not understand or taken seriously and it has alot of harmful consequences being seen as less or not being seriously taken.

I have a lawyer. He was unable to make it yesterday. And he is handling the appeal however.... MY QUESTON WAS: does anyone know if letting him put everything out in the open had any chance of helping or no ...????? I will not brake a promise especially of that bearing unless it may help...

Can you tell me what my question was?

The goal as we call it. Me, the physicotherapist, and two ministers that are advising. Is to show her family (dad and brother) mainly. How pushing the abuse under the rug has been so destructive and as they are ministers as well which puts them in a position where people come to advise for them...

Dated years and years ago but just friends now. I'm not who did what legally speaking. And I call it the flip. The point where she goes from her and being supportive And awsome and logical to starting arguments out of nowhere and then just gone. I think this is the 9th time now, and almost scary...

I have know her for 16 years. Always the same pattern, but I was never smart enough or knew all she had been through before. I knew she had been molested in her early teens, but this last time she came back around she disclosed everything. 20+ years of sexual abuse by many different abusers...