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@Justmehere thanks so much for all the advice. It is truly the hardest thing I have ever had to face. How to stop yourself caring about someone you don't want to stop caring about! I think I'm struggling with the memories of how it used to be, how she used to be. I know that regardless of...

@Deadman thanks solid advice! I forget what I enjoy I feel at a complete lose end my head just spinning. I think its the new news that she is possibly hooking up with another after telling me she didn't want another relationship for a long time. I knew to expect it just didn't think it would...

Im sorry to hear that. Life has a funny way of unfolding! I know time is the great healer its just hard in the meantime. I didn't know how much I could hurt and to be honest have no idea how to take it from here. If she is lying to me like my friends believe her to be doing I have to pull the...

@Deadman I don't know why probably just wish to be able to speak to her again. I guess your right tho just can't understand how it was so good and now so messy with such hostility towards me. I guess I'm just struggling at the minute I know she owes me nothing but yet I feel abandoned and like I...

Yes I know you are probably right it is just so hard It was a 4 year relationship. It kills me to think she has moved on so quick. she told me when she broke up with me she doesn't want anyone else and there is no way she could be intimate with someone and to think she could be lying is...

Hello everyone just another post to reach out for a little support I guess. Well since my last post we have had no real contact. It recently came to light that she may be seeing someone else. I never worried initially because she had told me this person was her cousin (turns out he isn't and she...

I think the way forward then is to leave back the keys with a note and then the ball will be in her court. In the meantime try look after myself and hopefully the days and weeks will get easier :). Its going to be very hard forgetting such a good thing :(. Thanks a million everyone for your...

I am truly overwhelmed by the help here thank you all so much! I am so glad to talk to and get advice from people who understand, it is surprisingly difficult in my circle of friends. That is exactly what I was afraid to cling on to also, that maybe if her PTSD symptoms disappeared she would...

No boundaries around contact have been communicated at all! I have been going by her actions. How it unfolded for us was the start of this year she started to change, us fighting more, her becoming agitated etc. Within 6 weeks of the new year it went from a seemingly loving happy relationship to...

Thanks so much for the replies! There are so many variables and I understand I might never get an answer but until 5 weeks ago I knew absolutely nothing about PTSD and sine her diagnosis I have done everything I can to try and educate myself. She has repeatedly said the person I new and loved is...

Hello I am new here but have posted once in a different thread. My ex gf of 4 years (4 blissfully happy years) has recently been diagnosed with PTSD that stems from childhood. Her diagnoses came after breaking up with me saying she no longer loves me or anything in life, that she just feels...

Snowflakes thank you for the advice! I forgot to mention there is a kid involved to whom I was step dad. The whole thing is a nightmare!! I just get an aweful feeling at times that if I don't make an effort with her she will never talk to me again but maybe thats just my insecurities. So the...

Thanks for responding! Can these feelings last indefinitely? I Have been trying to educate myself on PTSD as much as possible. I really love her and know she did feel the same. I am just hard scared to delude myself incase it is just her talking and she really doesn't love me anymore

Hello its my first post here. I have been with my now ex, 4 years and living together 3. We had a great relationship and where very much in love! She used to hint how she would like to have a kid with me and like to mary me. She has been through a lot of traumatic experiences that started in...