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hello thank you for your reply gamma we are still living together for now till end of month she will be moving into her own place by then and I will be moving in with parents with kids at that point too, we have two kids one is the daughter which is 4 and half and verbially autisitic doesn't...

thank you for your reply, I want to keep my kids safe no matter what but problem is in Canada the courts always side with the mother no matter what they are very very lienient here in Canada laws are different than down in south big time, it pretty much has to get to point of gun being pointed...

I am currently planning to up and leave with the kids and have already spoken with a legal aid legally I can pack up kids and leave which is what I am doing but I know that potentially she is goona cause a bad scene and this will end up going to court for battle of kids I have loads of proof of...

hi all back on today and I am hoping to hear back from my reply yesterday hopfully over next few days, I am now on different path now in regards to this situation and choose to give tough love and change myself and my kids situation now, sad thing is she seems like she just doesn't care about...

thanks again to all for this group and forum greatly appreaciated and I greatly respect everyones journey of self help over severe childhood trauma and traumatic experiences best regards geo

hi all its been a bit now since I have posted here and I truly appoligize for this, stuff at home has gotten even worse since last time, she has now slept with 5 or 6 men physically plus is engaging in un protected sexual acts I have found a couple of hidden pregnancy tests and also found some...

Thank you, I am honestly trying so hard to help my wife regardless of what she is doing but I do understand that no matter how much I love and show that to her in understanding and to just lend an ear to chat with she doesn't open up with me at all, doesn't emotionally connect with me, but one...

I have also noticed that in last month since my wife being on these anti depressants she associates with the kids a little more but only marginally at best, not a huge difference, I find that this is something that she has had for a long time, but got so so good at repressing her emotions from...

Hello all, been a little over a month since I last posted or replied with anything, I have days where I feel so drained mentally and get very stressed on my situation with my wife and also making sure the kids are safe, the town we live in doesn't have really any support for husbands who have...

Didn't mean for it to come out in that way sorry but just what my wife has openly written about over her Facebook, she was sexually molested by her father from age 4 to age 10 and after he left the home, after having that done to her by her father, clouded her judgement and soon once she hit 11...

Hello welcome, I am in here as new member too for support, I don't personally have it but I have a wife that has some very very deep childhood trauma from sexually getting molested by her father for few years plus then again allowing her self to get raped by another man after that has left her...

Thank you, for your reply My wife went to her phyciatrist and her first visit didn't seem like much help in regards to much of anything to be diagnosed with besides some depression then to prescribe her some mild form anti depressants, but she had explained certain things from childhood she...

Not that I have any actual experience with this from a clinical stand point just on what I see with my wife who was sexually molested when she was little by her father, she gets this way too or at least pretends to be this way when she is around me, she comes off as very anxious and almost...

Question on the phycological arrested development disorder, was once a diagnosable disorder and once it got changed to complex trauma aka (cptsd) complex post traumatic stress disorder it was no longer in the dsv handbook for diagnosable disorders, anyone know of when the c-ptsd is suppose to be...

Thank you so much and I know that I will be using all of you for support and also to gain even more info from other survivors of abuse and ptsd c-ptsd, again thanks to all for this amazing forum and help

I also from all my reading, starting to wonder if the kids actually give her flashbacks as that childhood for her, she has never omitted that to me or anyone else but we have two kids one girl and one boy, daughter is same age as she was when the sexual abuse started happening in her memory...

Yea I agree with you on that, but bad thing is, I don't think she sees that at this point, which is why I worry and will prob find another day time job again so I can return home for the nights just to cement real safety just in case, I have a lot of empathy for my wife from all her trauma but...

Thank you for the kind words, I am and always have been a super empathetic man, prob got that from my mom that is no longer here, she was also super empathic lady with anyone including strangers she saw on street not a mean bone in her body, but yea I have tried reaching out to therapy for me...

Thank you for your reply, her trauma councillor wants her to deal with things for herself first for few months before any actual couples therapy is what she thinks anyways, but I know currently right now she is in contact with at least 15 different men, by way of text messaging 6 of those guys...

I have posted on here about my wife who has c-ptsd from bad childhood sexual trauma, I am wondering if their is a way of setting safe boundaries with her that don't come across as attackful or seeming like I am hatefull towards her, I am coming across as nice and supportive with the whole...

The body can remember things many times before the mind can even wonder, going through some of the same things with my c-ptsd wife that I mentioned in here, she got badly sexually abused by her father from the age of prob 4 to 9 or 10, the odd thing is she can only remember the odd thing...

She actually omitted lastnight that she went on them to help to connect more with kids and me as she felt so depressed that she said she felt so forced to try hard at being happy for us but just couldn't and from that can't connect, so wanted to take something to hopefully help to aid in...

Thanks so much for the quick reply, I love my kids lots and, now that we have two, I want nothing more to then protect them and keep them safe, especially in this time, I know now with her conflicted thoughts being from c-ptsd until she is in help long enough that even when she posts certain...

Hello I have been with my now wife for 12 years, she was only 15 when I met her and I was 18, didn't know anything about her last or hidden issues in our relationship, she would always make life seem just about perfect and seemed loving on most aspects or at least seemed that way, one year into...