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Yes. This is exactly how I feel.

Boy, do I feel for you. I know exactly how you feel. It's the not knowing that is the hardest part. Also, wondering if they are going to run off and on for the rest of their lives. I wish I had something positive to say, but mine has been gone for a month now. For what it's worth, you are...

Thank you for putting that so kindly. I do my best not to trigger him, but I know I do. Just asking him how he is doing will set him off. I try not to ask any questions, but they build up over the weeks and then I spurt them all out. I think I am pushing him away.

Thank you so much for the reply. He will generally text good morning and goodnight, but that is about all. And yes it has been 2 weeks since the date he said he would return. We had started marriage counseling before he left and he has still been showing up for that once a week. I am having...

My husband left our home almost one month ago, saying he needed to work on himself. He was supposed to return in 2 weeks. That didn't happen. I was just wondering your thoughts on this, and how do you all feel about this happening in a marriage. There is little contact and no information...

Hi Tia, I am new here as well. Your story sounds a lot like mine. My husband and I have been together for 30 years. We were best friends and he was the nicest guy you could ever meet. Now I know that he was a serious fawner. Last August, he changed. Took him 6 months to tell me about his...

Thank You. I walk with my dog several times a day. The poor girl. She misses him too! I spoke with his couselor about maybe trying medication a few weeks ago. She said he doesnt need it! She is doing EMDR with him. Doesn't seem to be working well to me, but since he isn't here I can't do...

Thank you for the insight. Your husband must be very strong. I don't think I could hang in there if my husband left for a year. I am already a mess with 2 1/2 weeks away. I don't understand why now? We were always so close and now he barely speaks to me. What do you do when you leave home...

Yes. I am in therapy for myself. It only seems to help while I am in the session. When I leave the anxiety comes back. I would never have believed he could do this to us. He used to be so anxiously attached to me. Now he is avoidant. So strange!

Hi....I am struggling this morning. My husband and I have been together for 30 years. Last August he changed. He began leaving early in the morning and coming home late at night with no explanation. This went on for months. He finally broke down and told me about his trauma...just the...