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🧡No ill will felt at all, thanks so much for taking the time to respond to me, I really appreciate it. Yeah that all sounds really difficult, I don't know if that's what this is exactly here. We don't have kids or anything like that. She doesn't think she is well enough to have a...

I think it was not controlling or ioslating, or consistent or systematic, it was generally actually quite healthy, with some really unreasonable escalations due to dysregulation and trauma responses. I think it more like both parties contributing to harm through some poor skills. I do...

It was a very long post and Yeah I feel you. It's because in many ways we are very good for each other, but that obviously has come with risks. I don't form relationships very easily and from my limited experience, don't want to let them go, that is something I need to work on. I geuss...

I don't think this fits the definition of a abusive relationship, I defiantly see that it is unhealthy. So like sometimes people frame it like those with any kind of dysregulation issues shouldn't be in a relationship, which I think is whack, relationships are healing, this relationship has...

No, she is the one with PTSD, but I guess if that didn't come accress from the story, then perhaps that isn't as relavent? I do also suffer from dysregulation, perhaps also Trauma, I don't really know. Yeah fair, the term 'abusive' has been used, I'm not really sure I see it like that but yeah...

My relationship with A broke down over about 2 months, though there were warning signs and mistakes before that. She said from the start she wanted tobe open. I'm a bit inexperienced, so at the start I was way too overwhelmed to talk about openness, but I did say I was open to it and I meant it...