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Debbie, Thank you for the support. I agree with you that it will be infinitely important for me to be focused and clear of all of this. The strange part about this whole affair thing is that my wife described it as an escape and she had no intentions of it being anything else than what it was...

Hi Froggie-thanks for the response. we have talked about it to the point that seems ridiculous. We had a very lovely conversation last night about our future together, which made me feel much better. I actually contacted our family doctor this morning about getting something done for what I...

Tiger- Yes, this has been fairly recent. The affair ended almost 2 months ago and it only lasted for about 1-2 months. The problem is that this person was someone she has known online for 10 years as a friend and it never went that way. She did end it with him, including her friendship with him...

Tiger- I appreciate the support. I think you are right. It will take time. I sometimes wish there was a magic pill I could take just to forget until I don't need it anymore. Thank you so much for your help!!!!

Christy, Thanks for the kind words.....it's just one of those things when you meet the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, you know. I would give anything to help her take away her pain, but I can't figure out how to deal with my own. Kind of weird, I know.

Tiger, Thank you for responding to me. We have had a lot of conversations about it. The problem is that I have told her that I do trust her again, but I can't seem to shake it. I am not a weak person on that level and for the first 9 years of our lives together, it wasn't even an issue. I have...

I am new to this, but I am really in need of some advice from you good folks. My wife had an extremely violent life altering situation when she was young. Since then, she has had a propensity to "run". At the time, she did not receive any real treatment, but it would seem as though she has PTSD...