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I'm very proud of myself. I confronted him, made myself do it. I talked to him in a firm manner. I told him that his behaviour is unacceptable, that I don't want him to call me baby or tell me he loves me or grab my ass or kiss me ever again. I said, "This bullshit has got to STOP." I think he...

I know the feeling. I went many years without vaginal and breast exams due to my trauma. I tried to get them done because I have major issues with my cycles as well. I literally could not open my legs, they were clamped tight in fear. I was finally able to do it by reminding myself that I wasn't...

Any particular ones you'd suggest? I'm hoping I can get him to back off without bringing in the law. I've had bad experiences with talking to the cops.

That's good advice. Unfortunately I can't afford therapy, and the only free therapy around here isn't really from trained professionals, but church volunteers, and they lean heavily on prayer and trusting god. I'm an atheist, so that just makes me even more uncomfortable. I have suffered...

Ssam, thank you for your reply. You're right. I have been holding it in and it's unhealthy. I cried a lot last night and I felt better after. I think talking to people on here will help.

A therapist once told me that I have a victim mentality from the abuse I suffered as a child, and so until I can get past it, I am likely to be abused again. She was very right. I feel like I am cursed. I having trouble at work. I recently had an issue with another associate saying disgusting...