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Now he just came up from working out and he says to me in front of his 13 year old son and his son's friend..."I know what you can do...start packing". Then laughs. I said to him when we were talking about me NOT moving out, I said that it really hurts me when he says things about me moving...

Yesterday, i started packing. This, after me telling him that I wasn't going to leave for a couple weeks. That I can give him ample "alone time" and that two weeks isn't going to give him what he is looking for. I didn't really mean it to come over as an ultimatum, but as I write this, it...

Thank you all for your thoughts! I appreciate it more than I can express in words. The stressor of me trying to insure his happiness resulting in more stress TOTALLY makes sense and I have never thought of that. Also, his desire to be alone and me respecting that is something I try to do and...

He says that I cannot respect the fact that he wants some alone time.

I asked him to go to couples therapy and he said his therapist said that wouldn't be a good idea. I just read this entire thread to him and his response was "hmmm". That's it. Apparently Black Ops is more important right now. PTSD sufferers - do you feel like you can make a conscious...

Hi Dave! I appreciate your two cents. His PTSD stems from being deployed in Afghanistan as well as while he was away his wife's alcoholism was at an all time high with cheating involved. We met approximately one month after she moved out. Then I moved in a year later. He says his therapist...

He says he wants me to live with my sister for 2 weeks and see how he feels while I am gone. He says it will give him time to think and hopefully, deal with what he hasn't dealt with yet. He's been going to a counselor at the VA for a year now, so he is working on it and he's great on the day...

My boyfriend of over 4 years has PTSD. We have lived together for 3 years. At the beginning of the new year, he would like me to move out for a few weeks, so he can have some alone time. I understand this is important for him, but is moving me out really the right thing? Shouldn't we work on...