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Thank you. This is probably the most helpful thing I've heard through all of this.

Still wrestling with bad thoughts today. It's hard to move into a healthy frame of mind today. I wonder if something is wrong with me is why I fell for him. Maybe we were "just dating" but that doesn't excuse the blatant and frequent lies. That is what hurt me the most. Are addictions...

And they are good at hurting you just for being mad at them. I just sent him a list of all the women I knew of and mentioned how small his dick was. He blocked me. Sometimes the trash takes itself out. I will still probably cry myself to sleep tonight.

It was his actions that duped me into thinking he cared. But I guess I brought this on myself now and that is the source of my pain and disconnect.

Oh no, I am not going to try with him again. I can't trust him at all. My efforts to communicate were because I wanted to try and be friendly when handing over the rest of his stuff. I was 100% clear with him on my feelings. I told him I loved him in no uncertain terms. He absolutely knew...

He called it a relationship to R but characterized it as something more casual. I don't know if he used the word girlfriend but I was mentioned to his mom as the girl he was dating. How would you characterize that?

Yep. Dating multiple women at the same time is also the definition of drama. He has taken steps to devalue the past year of my life to R (the other girl). I'm sorry but when you sleep with me and offer to introduce your mom, best friend, and meet my friends...you're in a relationship with me...

Ya it was what @Sweetpea76 said. I spent some more time with the "other girl" and we put a timeline together. He was lying to both of us all along. He either never had PTSD and was using it to get us to care for him, or he's using his sex addiction to self medicate. Either way I feel used...

The other woman confronted him yesterday. He got caught completely. Right after that he tried to ask her out to a concert with his kids. (He's never met her in person before.) He's sick. I feel so sorry for him. He's still out there trolling the dating site. He really needs help.

And at long last we have resolution. He apologized and admitted he has a real problem. Damage is done, but this incident is now resolved.

This is my fourth relationship. Most of my relationships have been long term ones. What did you mean that would come in time?

God the more I think about it the more irate I'm getting. He KNOWS people who have killed themselves and been locked up in psychiatric hospitals for less. He RAN A DAMN VA CLINIC in Texas. and he's "Sorry I got so low" Why yes...I value love above all else in life and you cheated me. You...

Apparently he's "Sorry I got so low" So would any thinking, feeling human being affected by the dishonor you did to me.

He apologized and self-depreciated. Typical. I told him he was not sorry and would do it again.

Thanks for the reminder to get tested. I will.

OMG...on a hunch I decided to create a profile on Plenty of Fish that he would search for and I found him. I messaged him and told him I knew what he did and I met the other girl. I bet he nearly shit his pants. NOW he wants to talk. Isolation SMISOLATION. I really want to beat him up. He...

I know why his ex wife refuses to even speak to him now

SOOOOOOO....I had a very interesting development in my issue with L. Last night I was contacted on social media by a woman who dated L. AT THE SAME TIME I DID. This really happened and I met the girl in person. He met her the same way I did. She looks just like me (red hair and tattooed)...

I'm really angry. He does this but refuses to talk to me.

@PreciousChild - I never even told him I had an Instagram account. He found me.

The book author contacting him and our anniversary coming up must have me in his mind.

God. And today he started creeping my Instagram. This is new. Crap crap crap ?

Thank you for validating that. It's really stuck in my head the past week. I was starting to NOT think about it for a change.

Thanks for helping me level set. The author of the book knows he's not talking to me any more, but still insists on addressing us as a couple. It's really kind of annoying and re-traumatizing. The book author is an old veteran and knows about L's issues. I wish I could get him to understand...

I wouldn't know. I only met him after he left the Army. This weekend the book author he and I worked for started sending out invitations for the book release party in December. He and I are both invited. I got all upset and sad all over again. Still haven't heard a peep out of him since...