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Thank you for the response. Today is quite a struggle for me. Everyone keeps saying that I can’t help her. I WILL get her help though. I am really all she has. She knows this. Yet she hates the one person that cares about her. Boundaries are tough.

So. She is going to a 60 day rehab in August. Has an appointment for a mental health evaluation tomorrow morning. But.... she ran away again last night. I’m so trying to get her help.

Just wanted to give a brief update. She came back and spent the night with me. She actually brought up her behaviour and talked a lot. I mostly listened. She talked about wanting therapy. I agreed. Cross your fingers everyone.

She knows she isn’t ok. She was diagnosed with ptsd but hasn’t had any therapy beyond a session or two. She knows she has a major problem with alcohol that has gotten worse since the trauma. I don’t think she fully understands how much it is impacting EVERYTHING. She keeps going back and...

Should I call her out and ask “why did you push me? That wasn’t ok.” Or stay silent? She knows she pushed me and it was completely intentional, but I had less of a reaction this time than before. Someone said something about a stray/feral cat. Don’t chase and wait for her to come??? I don’t...

Can anyone elaborate on setting boundaries? Maybe give a few examples?

I’m never giving up unless I think she is doing better without me. I’ll take whatever abuse she throws at me. I’m very strong willed. I truly believe paths in lives cross for a reason. Whether these encounters are brief or whether two trails overlap for a lifetime, there is a purpose for the...

So... out of the blue....she text me Sunday. I ended up picking her up and taking her to dinner. I expected it to be awkward but instead it just seemed a little different at first. She was very cautious so to speak. It quickly went back to how we left off. I don’t mean how it was the night she...

Just wanted to start off by telling everyone how much I have appreciated all the responses. I have read and reread them numerous times. It means a lot. I can tell you all have a lot of wisdom to share. Thank you! She text me today. Just asked about a few things she had left at my place. She...

Thanks for the answer. Hard to cope with it..... The woman I fell in love with hates me.....

Not the positive news I hoped for. It actually moved well a past the honeymoon very quickly. Everyone has said the same thing though. Poor girl.....hard to let go of her.

I didn’t find this site until after she left. I know her story. I knew there were problems dating her but I waited too late to try and understand. She abuses alcohol and is untreated for ptsd and untreated for alcohol abuse. She was kidnapped and sexually assaulted a year ago. She has been gone...