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He may have been diagnosed when he was a kid but nothing as an adult because he refuses therapy. He was forced into therapy after the incident happened when he was a kid and says that it didn’t help and he doesn’t want to talk about this with a stranger. He has all the symptoms of ptsd that I...

Would it be a bad idea to wait until we get all of the housing stuff taken care of? I’d really like to just talk to him in person if I can but I definitely need advice about how to go about this. I don’t know if he needs me or someone to be there and we’re not? He made it very clear when he left...

I don’t even know what I should say. He left here like he hated me. I don’t know if he’d even want to hear from me.

Every week but only regarding the house. We haven’t had any other contact.

I have no problem taking it week but week. I plan to stay here for a year. But should I text him every week like his uncle suggested?

Thank you! I will definitely give that a read. I’m thinking that I should try to talk to him in person instead of giving the letter. I was planning to wait a couple more weeks and see if he will come talk to me. Does this sound okay? How long does it usually take your husband to be okay with...

Yes this is the first time he’s ever acted this way. He’s had little outburst in the past about me not knowing what he’s been through or what goes on in his head but never anything like this. I don’t know if the mixture of his grandpa, us moving and him being in a new unit with people he didn’t...

I haven’t talked to him about anything other than the move since he left two weeks ago. I haven’t told him I loved him or was here for him or anything. He didn’t care if I left. I just started a new job when this happened and I think he’s offering the house so I can stay here and keep working...

Thank you so much! Yes it’s base housing. I’m praying that it is just him being symptomatic. I’d planned to give him the letter once I get some of his stuff together for him to come get after he moves things into the house. He will have been gone for 3 week at that time. Do you think I should...

There have been a few issues in the past with other girls. No cheating that I’m aware of but he’s done a few things that were disrespectful to me which caused some trust issues. While I was gone I didn’t hear from him one night and questioned him about it. That’s when he said that he loved me...

I keep trying to give myself hope that the letter will help explain things to him and that he’s just taking space and that he’ll come home. I worry that he’s spending so much time with these friends that he’s known a couple months and has completely thrown away his family. Do they ever realize...

Yes it is. We (now I) have been in a hotel for two months waiting for our house to be available. The house will be ready for move in this week. He’s signing for it and moving the large items out of our storage unit while I’m at work. I think he prefers not to see me. I’ll be moving in alone this...

I honestly had no idea. He’d occasionally talk about it if he (on rare occasion) got drunk on liquor. He’d always tell me that I had no idea what he’s been through and no idea what goes on in his head but it only happened maybe twice. I want to understand him and actually be there this time...

Hey everyone! I hope some can give me some advice on what to do. My husband of 2 years has a severe child sexual abuse history by a male friend. He’s also in the military. Two weeks ago he left because “he’s a bad person, I can find someone better and he can deal with the thoughts in his head if...