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Update: After 3 weeks, I emailed him to say I could see how my actions were overstepping his boundaries, no matter how good my intentions were. In my email I took accountability for the outcome - even though my intentions were good, I have to take accountability for the outcome - and apologised...

"PTSD isn’t an excuse for bad behavior; the opposite, it’s a reason to get bad behavior under control, yesterday." (sorry, still figuring out how to use the 'quote' function on here) This one sentence has so much sense in it, it should get some sort of award! He knows he self sabotages, he...

For overstepping, for not leaving him alone. Death has played a prominent role in my life the last few years (after losing both parents in relatively close succession), and I think a part of me is still holding its breath, waiting and wondering when it’ll strike again, who it’ll take away...

I can see what you are saying, though a REALLY bitter pill to swallow. Because as a cPTSD sufferer, he also needs consistency, reassurance that I haven't been scared off and abandoned him - something I know is an issue for him. Add to that the human factor - as in, I'm also a human being with my...

I've been seeing and falling in love with a wonderful man for 9 months now. We had a rocky start with plenty or mistrust and projections from his side, and hurt feelings on my part. I can't even remember how many times we "pulled the plug", but always ended up finding our way back to each other...