Recent content by America15

Thank you all for your experience. It's interesting that it all sounds similar. @Gia1019 yes I meant rely sorry my english is not that good. I saw his car and 3 big bags of clothes in it. Somewhat like a homeless but it does not seem like he has a problem with it. I remember he "lived" in his...

Hey I try to keep it as short as possible. Maybe my title sounds harsh but I'm really asking myself this question right now. I've read so much here about the sufferer who take off, break up or just want to be left alone. I truly believe deep down inside they all want someone to support them and...

A short update. I am not sure if someone is about to read this but I think it will help people who are in a similar situation. Ever since my husband left again two weeks ago we haven't had so much of a conversation. I try to leave him alone and try to give him the time to think about his life...

Here is a short update from my story. Last week Monday my husband send me a message saying that he wants to send me an email. I told him I don't want to have his email because I want to see him face to face. 5 days later I thought I will give him the chance to express himself. The same night he...

Well where to start? Some of you know my story. My husband took off 7 weeks ago because he was not sure if he wanted to put me through his ptsd life or not. He showed up 3 times, only texting ever since. 3 times he rescheduled our meetings. Yesterday I gave him the chance to tell me via email...

When you read my posts you'll see we are going through a similar situation (we don't have kids though). To say yes he will come back or not he won't would be way to easy for a person in his situation. My husband is gone for 7 weeks now and I feel like he tries to figure out who he is and what he...

I just came back from the therapist. I told her that I feel bad that I rejected his email. She told me that if he really wanted to tell me something he would have sent it anyway regardless if I want the email or not. She gave me great advice (one of a few therapists I have a good feeling with)...

Very good answers thank you. You are probably right. I'm just afraid that he is hiding behind messages. I know he is afraid. I'm thinking of texting him end of the week How I feel and what's going on (I mean it in a very understandable sense). I'm going to tell him that nothing has changed in...

Well I was prepared for our conversation last night. Yesterday morning I receive a message from him that he will send me an email later and I have to let him know when I get off work. I was shocked. No meeting? Again? After 7 weeks it is very hurtful. I texted him back that I don't want his...

Hi y'all This is my story Supporter - My Husband Wants To Leave Me Ever since my husband and I exchanging messages, plain, no big emotions. If I would not say "I love you" he would not say anything or even response. I know my husabnd cares about me and still loves me. He just paid the rent...

Thank you for your positive feed back. The last couple days has been really tough. We texted every 2-3 days. Wednesday he sent me a message about an incident what happened months ago but he apologized what he did and that I know he did not mean to hurt me. This was just another confusing message...

I am new to this page and would like to share my story. First of all I want to apologize. English is not my mother tongue but I will try to express myself as good as possible. I came to the states in August 2014 and met my husband within the first 3 weeks I was here. He was a Marine and was...