Recent content by anthony

I do... I don't like clutter in my phone.

It always gets worse before it gets better with trauma... but the good news is, it has to get worse before it gets better, so you're on the path now, ride it out and trust the process. You really do have to hit the bottom of the barrel, pretty much, and then fight your way up. As you climb out...

This. The circle of nowhere. You pick one thing, just one thing, and you work on that. That's it. You can have disaster all around you, but you pick one thing you don't like, and you change it so its either removed from your life, or now a positive in your life. Once you do that, you choose...

I pretty much don't have it in my life - harder, it makes my life harder.

Hi and welcome. Whilst I have approved this, you are right on the line with self promotion. I understand that you want to help people, but read our community constitution, zero self promotion, zero advertising or marketing. Be careful please, otherwise your account will be terminated. Our...

Doing some minor hardening and security work on the server... you might experience small bouts offline, it won't ever be long, and I will try to avoid it at all costs. Security hardening is a tedious task that takes a lot of time. Found some small holes that are closed now, no doubt will find...

I can... but Nicolette wants to come, and I am waiting on her availability.

I really want to be camping about now. Need to get away, go fishing, sit by a fire... complete chill.

This reminds of the ibogaine discussion. Do I, Don't I, self argument. On the one hand it is the capacity to heal you, on the other it has the capacity to destroy your mind. Now the results are good - BUT - like everything, there are a number of people that it will basically render you useless...

Whether real or not, its still your brain doing the deed, whichever side of the fence you're on, when it comes to this framing. Think about that, sit back and let it sink in... and how mad it may make you regardless the outcome. My thinking goes a little like this... if it didn't happen, best...

Hi Anam. Yes, you're going about it about as right as you can, being that you're giving her space. Saying that, depending on her level of trauma, she may not be in any position to give anything more of herself, than casual sex or such, when she feels like it. Everyone is different, and this type...