Recent content by BPH

I finally decided to send flowers and a teddy bear yesterday. I didn't mention his death in my note. It should arrive this afternoon. There is nothing to b done but move on now.

You can't fix him only he can do that. So forget it. Women always want to fix guys. They love 'projects' the more challenging, the better. All you can do is change yourself, and be happy about your own life. I know for myself that I have real problems with intimacy. I can express it as being...

He shot himself I just learned - a last outrageous guilt trip on his wife in 20 long years of guilt tripping. Well, the first 5 years were ok. She is devastated. This is life. He was so far gone in addiction, so unwilling to care for himself. I have been there with suicide. There was a period...

I wrote this to a friend this morning. Names and places have been changed or removed to protect privacy. I don't know details on W’s death yet. But I do know a fair amount about their life together. It could have been anything from heart attack to homicide or suicide by gunshot. But most...