Recent content by Fire phill

Hi Scout, I get what your saying. Yes her family does have a big influence over her thinking. Although she thinks she has her own mind. Her family are very good at manipulation especially her mother and son. Until she was diagnosed she did seem to have her own mind but I think they have seen a...

Now she's really angry. She informed me that there isn't that much wrong with her. Only the lack of sleep and the nightmares, other than that she's ok. She doesn't have twisted thinking or depression. Apparently this is all my fault I'm a liar and I've pushed her away and she's not ill. She...

Hi Sangamo, hearing your still together gives me hope although at the moment I'm not sure how much. I know that none of this is my doing and my wife is projecting all of her anger onto me. I pray for her and my daughter. Thank you for your support

Thanks Sangamo for your reply. I take it you are together at the moment? My wife is convinced that we should separate. I'm hoping that if she can start treatment and stabilise before the house is sold perhaps we can avoid the separation. I love my wife and I too want her to get better. I'm...

Hi Sangamo, Thanks for your reply. Please tell me did you stay together. My wife hasn't started treatment yet. She has an appointment with psychiatrist in 2 weeks. I hoping once she has stabilised it might get better

Ok, I think I've really screwed up. I spoke to my one of my wife's daughters to explain what is going on to try to get some support. It has backfired and she told her mother. I also left some literature lying around explaining about PTSD in the hope my wife might read and understand more about...

Hi Stillstanding, My wife is at the moment more of a Mr Hyde than Dr Jekyll. I only thought of borderline because of the sudden change and the fact she seems to have me painted black (all bad). She has never shown signs of suicide or really even bad behaviour prior to the turn of events last...

Hi Stillstanding, Although I might have said my wife seemed like she had Borderline traits, she hasn't been diagnosed Borderline. She has however been diagnosed with extreme C-PTSD. It was her that said I was like Jekyll and Hyde not the other way round. Like here's how it goes. I try to be...

Her family think I'm the problem too. Her mother has been told about the PTSD but she is too ignorant to acknowledge it is a problem and will sweep it under the carpet and blame me. Her kids only know that we are having problems and don't know about the PTSD. They just had a family day on...

oh, I forgot. She is now accusing me of being Jekyll and Hyde.

Hi Sweetpea, She claims it's me messing with her mind and that she has so many reasons to dislike me. Like this morning she was off to the doctors. I think she wants her meds dose increased coz it's not helping her sleep or the nightmares. I came down too take my daughter to school and I asked...

Hi back again. Well she has an appointment with a psychiatrist on 31 July. I tried to speak to the assessing psychiatric nurse to find out what's going on but they told me nothing. Things here at home are getting worse as many of you had predicted. Every time we speak it ends up as an argument...

Thanks Scout.

Hi I'm back. Just an update, I think my wife has Borderline tendencies. From the info I've researched, she is Splitting, has "Painted me Black". Which would explain, The sudden change of personality. I've read that Borderline and C-PTSD are often comorbid with each other. Well the house is on...

Thanks to Kefira and Stillstanding for your words, The problem I've got is I don't know what my wife has. She has been diagnosed with extreme c-ptsd. She wants to get on with her life alone with my daughter. She said that if the feelings come back she will find me. She said I've pushed her away...