Recent content by Horse girl

@Justmehere @seedling thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for your support, it's a comfort and helps to keep me strong. In all of this, I think it scared him as he didn't realise all of the symptoms and is now learning about it and coming to terms that he could possibly have it...

@Justmehere I can't thank you enough for you kind response. I had to compose myself after as reading you message brought me to tears! No one has explained it to me the way you have or others on here as no one else really understands unless you know about the symptoms and about it. You're...

Okay so I'm afraid I need some more help from anyone :-( Update: Basically he's emailed saying that "I have had anger issues about it because it happened in the first place but that's all. I'm really not suffering as much as you think ! " I responsed and asked to consider getting a proper...

@signs @Sweetpea76 @Justmehere -- thank you so much for your insights on this, you have no idea how much it helps. Thank you for your understanding and compassion. So we actually spoke on the phone yesterday since this has all happened as he knew I was struggling and worrying about him and it...

Friday Jones - thank you soooo much for your response. You were so informative and helpful. I just have a couple more questions if you or anyone can answer them?! Emotional Numbing, & Emotional Distancing, & Disassociation, & Depersonalization, & Derealization as you said fluctuates, but...

Thank you - I will try and do this.

Thank you Fadeaway for your insight, that makes sense. I just want to help him through this, that is all as I know he would me.

HypnoticallyChaotic: Thank you so much for your words, I thought so. I will try to do that but he is resisting at the moment. He says the last month he has worked through his issues and it is not linked to me!

My heart goes out to you all on here - you are not alone. I need some desperate advice. My ex is in the military and has been since he was 19. He is 33 now. When we first met, you know the story... everything was perfect, FIINALLY I was happy (I'd had a big betrayal before him) and now it was...