Recent content by JH11

@Samantha_38 Thank you, it all is quite overwhelming when I put the whole thing together. Right down to her behavior last week.. I'm definitely going to be filing a complaint with the association she is registered with but I admit I'm a little concerned what she might escalate to when she...

This whole thing is messed up. I have no idea why it happened, I do know I was extremely vulnerable in 2010 when I spent 3 months in the hospital (Feb-May) waiting my 2nd back surgery and she came every day with her daughter to visit me... Then I left the hospital after my surgery and went to...

Hi Abstract, I will be filing a complaint against her, yes...I'm definitely glad we got out first before filing the complaint...but that will be my next step.

Just wanted to post to say we are finally out on our own, away from the control and everything else. Wednesday morning she almost had an altercation with my 14 year old son as her and her daughter were "Showing the house" to a potential renter and when my son called to tell me there were people...

This is my original post : https://www.myptsd.com/threads/i-need-help-advice-re-ex-therapist.39407/ Here is an update: Last Wednesday morning I ended up calling the police and they told me to email both the mother and daughter and let them know to not contact me or my children directly or...

Hi all, Thanks for the responses and support. Since October's email to her I had to start making LOTS of changes/undoing lots of things that had been changed since 2010. -my own bank account (I got her name put on mine in 2011 because I was going back for another surgery and it seemed like the...

Hello again, I Figured there would be too much info for me to get it all in but let me clarify- We moved in Oct. 2011 to my home city into a house together, so we are not in her house anymore. I've completely agreed I need to get away from her and at this point I don't even see / talk to...

Yes she is licensed. She works for a transition house which is how I met her- I'd been in the transition house a couple of years prior and had stayed in contact with them...she started working there in 2008.

Thank you all for your replies...I will be sure to stick around here. I haven't found an online community yet and this issue prompted me to seek out unbiased opinions on this. I'll update the thread and let you know what happens.

Not that I know of, except her inability to ever admit being wrong made it so that I never argued or suggested otherwise. It seems like she suggested things and then it became real, for whatever reason, in my own mind. Like she wanted me to believe my family would hospitalize me if I...

Yes, we are still living in the same house as I am waiting for her to tell me whether she is moving or I am moving. It would be much easier for her and her daughter to move as I have 3 kids. I hope she makes the right choice in the next week and tells me that's what they're doing, because if...

Thanks Lost Pup, that's what I have been repeatedly told by friends in my life...It was in October when I emailed her saying I could NOT do the "family" dynamic anymore as it was just too unsafe for me. They have stopped all contact, virtually, with the kids and I and I just need to be NOT...

I guess I should also have added that the "mother" relationship she was trying to create and put on me was causing me repeatedly to become suicidal. But, she would tell me I was "pushing her away" or "rejecting" her /the family etc. So if I sound scattered, I am.

Sorry, Yes- I have PTSD.

I'm new here, a 34 yr old mom to 3 kids. In 2009 began seeing someone for counseling and then in Feb. 2010 I was admitted to the hospital as I was awaiting back surgery. The entire 3 months I was in there, she came daily with her daughter (who was/is the same age as me) and I quickly drew away...