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    KA60 replied to the thread Not happy with husband.
    Why do doomsday believers alienate people but keep it up? Husbands beliefs resulted in this with me. To be right at all costs- that is a...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Not happy with husband.
    I have update as I deal with our issues more. I think problem is breakdown in trust. He is veteran with ptsd. Undiagnosed untreated . He...
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    You have found the ultimate place (social media I assume?) to confirm your cognitive distortions: everyone is doing so much better than...
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    KA60 replied to the thread 12 Step Sponsor-PTSD-BPD.
    I am sorry I made the post. It seems to have caused more issues with you. I have nothing that can help
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    KA60 replied to the thread 12 Step Sponsor-PTSD-BPD.
    Can you research spiritual bypassing to see if you can get some help or info from this? Trauma recovery involves managing our reactions...
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    KA60 replied to the thread 12 Step Sponsor-PTSD-BPD.
    Not sure if thus helps but the term character defects is derogatory to me. In my trauma recovery I had to come to grips with the...
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    KA60 reacted to User 123's post in the thread Sufferer how? with Like Like.
    Seeing a post like this from a couple months back breaks my heart because that absolute isolation is terrifying. Withdrawal makes your...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Today this am I called my father from my phone. I wanted to. I watched observed any codependent thinking before I decided to aka you...
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    I feel fear similar to you out in public. Mine seems to connected to the moral compass breakdown in our society. I do believe this is...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Please if my posts about my father help anyone avoid the consequences of the transmission of transgenerational trauma then that is good...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Thank you. I was educated in these dynamics in domestic violence treatment and family systems theory in psychotherapy. I reviewed...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Narcissism .No more f...K to give.
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    My brother and I shared texts last regarding my father. I asked him to call me so I could discuss me not calling my dad to check on him...
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    Radical acceptance. I may not like it support etc but I have to accept. Move forward. Create your future. I am so sorry
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    Hello and welcome. Good support here.
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    KA60 replied to the thread Political Venting.
    I agree. Perhaps a digital detox for all of us is needed
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    KA60 reacted to oliver767's post in the thread One of Those Days.. with Like Like.
    Days like that are brutal. It is not one big disaster. It is death by a thousand small cuts. Laundry, grocery delivery, wrong date...
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    KA60 replied to the thread One of Those Days...
    Thank you.
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    KA60 replied to the thread One of Those Days...
    Thank you. I am not a hermit but there is a lot of moral decay in the US. People with no boundaries. I did not understand this living...
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    Tina Turner we don't need another hero
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    KA60 replied to the thread One of Those Days...
    Well not sure if this helps. A former member of our rv park was assaulted by another person living here. After I said to my husband we...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    I want no parental gifts.
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Thank you. I will contact him and try to discuss this. I appreciate your insight very much. Not sure how.i live 1900 miles from the...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    My other repeated error is seeing red flags of various traits of unsafe people not honoring my instincts in this case but waiting for...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    I am also going back on my boundaries not just with my dad but other people . I have hurt threatened treated disrespectfully but then...
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    Probably because they haven't really suffered trauma, beyond stubbing their big toe and calling it such, trying to woke identify and...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    Thank you. I have gone no contact with him and mother before. I got an ex parte order against him in 2018. Two actually successfully. He...
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    KA60 replied to the thread My father- again...
    And perhaps he is so miserable he wants to pass away. I will not spend time with him on phone angry. But this situation is unacceptable.
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    KA60 posted the thread My father- again.. in Relationships.
    He is 89. He has several comorbities including memory issues falls etc. Released from hospital about 2 weeks ago. He does not live in my...
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    I could say this about this statement. I had trauma recovery therapy domestic violence treatment help understanding family systems...
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    KA60 replied to the thread How Would You Categorize This?.
    I know I have ptsd. I have had irrational fears. I would not characterize mine as psychotic or dissociative but rather irrational...
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    KA60 replied to the thread How Would You Categorize This?.
    I have a similar issue. My fear begins to increase in the evening and on in to the night. One explanation I have is circadian rhythms...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Political Venting.
    Agree. Opinions beliefs are not facts. I am afraid. Of people. Not the kind of fear I am immobilized by but I will not argue. It is...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Problem today.
    Thank you. Replying late more specifically. I know about covert narcissitic abuse. Self sabotage. I had trauma recovery domestic...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Other Unsafe people.
    Also. I live in NM Hanta virus here in 4 corners region 1993. These people good little people pleaser are going to clean up this man's...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Other Unsafe people.
    Here is an update. The sister of the woman who lived in our rv park that was assaulted - she lives in our rv park too with her fiance...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Other Unsafe people.
    Thank you all. I am managing my own stress.
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    Would appreciate any comments on something I have seen in myself. I was educated into traits of safe and unsafe people as part of my...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Dyskinesia…?.
    Contact your doctor. I was successfully tapered off under medical supervision. In 2017 from clonazepam. No problems. I have a seizure...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Political Venting.
    God help us all. We are being taught the lesson of facism again because we failed to learn the first time.
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    KA60 replied to the thread Political Venting.
    I do not know how the US is ok with SNAP cuts medicaid cuts etc. This is immoral. The money is being transfered to the wealthy...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Problem today.
    I wanted that for us years ago. We have been married almost 6 years ago. He got angry said I was the problem..also he agreed to care for...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Problem today.
    Thank you. I have tried to discuss it. He feels he is being attacked. He has some doomsday beliefs. I don't although things are not...
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    KA60 posted the thread Problem today in Relationships.
    We have a neighbor female 40 who is struggling- financially emotionally with past history of trauma abuse. My husband feels he needs to...
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    KA60 reacted to FMCA's post in the thread I was nasty today and I need help with Like Like.
    I’m glad it’s doable. I think part of the fact I’m angry is at myself and I got angry at her because she didn’t accept my apology. I...
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    KA60 replied to the thread Military Facing Fear.
    Thank you Riley. I needed that
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    KA60 replied to the thread I was nasty today and I need help.
    Like your comment about forgiveness. I got to that point with my first deceased husband. Am close with my father. He is 89. His life is...
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    KA60 replied to the thread I was nasty today and I need help.
    I would add this and I must apologize because it is blunt..I was the scapegoat child in my family..No.ome in hindsight site had to be...
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    KA60 replied to the thread I was nasty today and I need help.
    I so much appreciated these posts. My former female friend who cut me off. OK.i have a fairly new post menopausal diagnosis and this...
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    Well. Today was the first day of early voting in the primary in my state. I voted. Here is why this is meaningful to me. My husband a...
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