Recent content by Kas_Can_Fly

I seems harsh that a couple of members are talking about her as if she can't read this thread.You've decided on what she is feeling, despite blanketly ignoring what she's said throughout this entire thread. Stop talking and listen for a second first. It's incredibly distressing, even as an...

Personally I'm reading the that @Notsowild is defensive -it has been pointed out to her in the past and now when she's feeling vulnerable, instead of opening up fearlessly (or at least relatively speaking) she's prefacing the core of the the matter with defensiveness, she now feels that the...

I agree that pity party is a derogatory term but more than that I think that being told that an emotion which you are experiencing is wrong, or unnecessary in some way is the language of abusers. Or at least language I've associated with abusers. You do need to feel an an emotion to process it...

I've noticed it too and other things like conflicts and so on coupled with my own problems has meant I've needed to take a step back from here, or at least be very selective in what I read/reply to.

Dissociation makes me tired, so does anxiety, so does depression, so does having nightmares... I could go on. There are also physical conditions that cause sleepiness like an underactive thyroid - which can also make you feel more depressed. Sometimes I will sleep more than 20 hours a day for a...

I was just reading a blog post, where the writer was talking about a therapy session and at the end of the post they described the way they left -they always had toast (obviously a very different building to where I go) and then they said goodbye and lef, back fully to the door and their hands...

She is, when I first started I wasn't so sure but she's really grown on me and now I'm scared that when I move that I will lose her. It took a long time for "us" to feel comfortable with her and to be able to open up properly, so this will be a big shift - but one step at a time for now!

I don't make my poor T's life easy!! She's been very patient with me in allowing me to find my way in therapy. In our first preliminary session I went along mentioning the Pottergate Center for Trauma and Dissociation because of everything internally - which I was very vague with her about. A...

You're enough anyway Laurie and that's what matter's most. :hug:

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Valentines day isn't even until the 14th. (Unless it's different in the US?) Maybe he still wants it to be a surprise?

Whilst I certainly agree on the trauma aspect of it, it seems like he healthily deals with it by the end of the film. I personally see it that he works through the stages of grief, aided by the storyline - which is a great thing to give to kids to help them when that arises for them. I don't see...

*^_^* It only sunk in the second time around - I've seen so many good ones, but this is the first one here! Thanks, I'm grinning so much now :)

Welcome to the forum :)