Recent content by knert

I hear you. I notice similar trust hardships in the field, for myself. I don't know if you can, you may know that better then anyone else. I find, that a combination would be best for me. Since trauma is often in relationship, it would be impossible for me to fully heal without "other"...

Ow YES! I totally relate!!! I was bullied. Every schoolday there where about 50 up to over 80 kids calling me ugly, a boy etc for several years. It came to the point I feared for my life, when I was accused of something I didn't do and the school with 2500 students turend against me. So when I...

Hihi thats just pure word art! Thank you so much for sharing! This resonates even more, since I find it very hard to understand people at times! It takes of some pressure and makes room for the other.

Thank you for adressing the other comment with tact. Thank you so much for sharing your keen insides! Very educational, although at times a bit uncorforteble, spot on! Me saying, being confrontational is maybe more strong reactivity in hindside. I do have adhd and I used to blurr out...

What a wonderfull advice and so true! I definatly will make this a practise! Thank you for sharing.

Hi thank you so much for your reply, its really helpfull! Im still triggert, though. It was really her joyfull tone talking about her distressed kid, that got to me, I think. And maybe some things that I didn't wrote above, because it was hard to translate (english is second language). But I...

So im really bad in friendships and im left to like 1,5 friend. I feel I might push my last friend away by being to confrontational. And it makes me wonder if the frienship is healthy and or if Im un healthy due to triggers from Emdr and a bit to much out of context... Situation: The day...

Thank you so much for the warm welcome and the heartfelt and needed reminder! You are right, I did make big progress and difficult choices for my well being! Thank you for the reminder x

Hi there ^^ Im new here. Happy I found this forum! For aslong that lasts... since I find people verry complicated XD... I life in isolation because of that, I do some attempts to break free but the gab to normal society is really big. I have almost no healthy family left after a good detox...

Hi, Im really confused and scared. Soon I will see a male therapist, for like the 5th time and it should be our official beginning on an individual level, before it was a group setting. I really don't see the difference between me projecting fear/ attachement vs other people's things...