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His apt building is literally the only thing at that corner. I live in a city with several shootings per week. I don't care whether we aren't still friends or not. If something that draws that many cops to his street happens and the news is vague, it seems normal to check in on someone you...

To the OP...my guy started pulling away after the first unsolicited "i love you." It's been 6 mos since we last saw each other. I tried to see him in June for my birthday and not only did he shoot me down but told me he wasn't missing the relationship. Well I am. I miss it and him every day...

On the local news yesterday, they reported there was a robbery right in front of my ex's apartment building. In the news video, you could see FOUR cop cars in front of my ex's street sign! Unfortunately, the news report was VERY vague. All it said was, police arrested at least one suspect in...

This is hard. I have no advice really cuz i did not handle my situation well and would not wanna steer you wrong. At least you can take some comfort in the fact she still loves you.

That all makes sense. And yes on the no contact. Tho I expect to run into him somewhere eventually as we travel in the same circles. Both involved in theater and film

If she is anything like my ex, prepare for confusing mixed messages :/

Yeah..I dunno. Maybe if I post the context? He said: "After everything I don't want to be with you anymore. I don't say that out of malice. I am not saying it to get a reaction. If that's what you need to be at peace with it, then fine. I am past thinking about why it went wrong, I am past...

No, you're right, and I do keep re-reading his last email to me, so it will really sink in how cruel it came across for him to say, "I'm not missing it", re the relationship. That cut like a knife. Not sure how someone could be simultaneously the sweetest person I ever met, and the meanest one.

Honestly, after my experience, I would not reach out. She needs to be in the driver seat. To give her space, just focus on yourself and do fun things for yourself. Whenever you think of her, just distract yourself. And post here for support :)

Ayyyy carumba. Your story felt so familiar to me. I was with MY ex for 6 months, before things fell apart. Now that I've had more time to read other people's stories, certain things he did make more sense to me. Things were going so well for us, and he had said I love you, unsolicited, for the...

How are YOU doing, btw?

This new guy--even tho we've only been out once, we text a lot and he seems to really like me. I feel bad tho that I was up til 4a depressed and crying about my ex, yet making plans to see this new person tomorrow :(

I do plenty of that. And no, I didn't "wrap my life up in him"..we both had our separate lives. And yes, I started dating again..online dating and have one person I've been out with once, and planning to see again, but I feel I'm maybe being unfair to any new person I date since I'm not over...

I feel like I'm grieving too much, actually :(

It's been 2 weeks..just wondering how it all worked out?