Recent content by MMS99!

@Mytime... Thank you so much. Your words mean alot. Everyone on here is awesome and so supportive. Ptsd really wont be a part of my life anymore but I think I will stick around to see how everyone is coming a long and to chat. @tiredtexan... Im not sure what you mean by stick with it unless you...

@Sweetpea76... Step ahead of you. Got my laptop today while he was at work. I also have the gift he got for "his love" and he isnt getting it back. When I showed him the gift he got really mad and threw the mail against the wall and said going through my sh$! again! I told him nope the blame...

@sighing.... I appreciate your words so much. But I found out today for sure that he is having an affair with this woman. In fact, he has a trip planned to go see this woman from Dec 30-Jan 7. And obviously wasnt going to tell me. Not sure where he thinks he was going to tell us where hes going...

@Sweetpea76 I have told him that " lying and sneaking around is stressful for someone that dont have ptsd so I can only imagine why your so stressed and anxious" I know our son leaving for the army Jan of this year was what triggered him and my mom almost died a month after that and he was...

@Mytime I forgot to say he refuses marriage therapy but is in therapy for himself. He just started November 1.

Yes he is symptomatic. Has been for 2 months. Thats when everything started. He has had ptsd for 25 yearsish. Figured out on my own he has ptsd 6 months ago but he has suspected for years he has it and never talked to me about it. We have been together 18 years and married 17. Things were going...

If sympathetic you mean, sympathetic to how his behavior affects ys then no. And he claims this woman is the ex wife of an army buddy and they started chatted because he was trying to find her hubby then found out they are no longer together. And he says he has never been friends with this woman...

I have no idea what Im doing and I feel like Im stuck and not moving at all. The behavior my husband has been displaying is a deal breaker for me. He was and I beileve is still being dishonest. But because I dont trust him, he may be being honest again. I dont know. And because I dont trust him...

Thank you so much feetfirst. He does not like to discuss the topic of his friendship with her and no matter how "gently" I have approached the issue, he gets angry and wont really talk to me about it. The entire situation just dont look good. If he wouldnt have lied about it, I wouldnt even...

I know in my heart Im not crazy, but I suppose I needed to hear it from someone else. I have no one to talk to. I cant even get into therapy at this point because I dont really have reliable transportation. Im so glad I found this site because you can research and read books, but it seems to me...

I need help from someone to help me understand some things. And I just need someone to talk to. I dont know anyone else that has ptsd that I can talk to that can maybe help me understand ptsd and help me understand my husbands behavior. And I have no one else that is in a relationship with...

No, you have not given too much info or made it overwhelming. The main thing Im trying to figure out is, since Im being told I should seek therapy to learn about and cope with my husbands ptsd so I can be supportive to him and I know I need therapy because of the sexual abuse in my childhood...

Hello. Im new here and have only posted once. I hope Im posting this in the right area. My husband is a veteran that was recently diagnosed with ptsd. From what I have read about understanding and living with someone with ptsd and based on advice from a few people, I need therapy for myself as...

Hello. Im new here. I figured out 6 months ago my husband has Ptsd but my husband has known for years and never told me. He is finally in therapy after much begging from the kids and I. He is a veteran and was in the army and in Saudi Arabia for a short time during the gulf war. There was an...