Recent content by NoGoodDeed

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    Relationship Needing help understanding

    I just downloaded it. Thank you. I appreciate your perspective though. I’m looking for someone with PTSD to explain what I can do to help him. But I can’t avoid saying names, phrases etc.
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    Relationship Needing help understanding

    I haven’t really told my friends about our relationship. Mostly because he’s still married and I’m ashamed of my position in this situation. I never imagined I’d be the other woman. I definitely deserve to have friends. It is unfair for him to decide that my friends should only be women...
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    Relationship Needing help understanding

    Thank you. I appreciate your input. I definitely don’t deserve the shit show that my life has recently become. It was never an easy relationship but it was amazing until recently. It seems like his focus shifted from being upset with work to being upset with me. He is actually amazing with...
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    Relationship Needing help understanding

    He said “My perception of your actions and my feelings about it are as if I was cheated on. It doesn’t matter if I was actually cheated on.” And I find that confusing. What if I took his reaction and said it felt like murder? Doesn’t make it so. My child is doing quite well. I didn’t mention...
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    Relationship Needing help understanding

    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years now. Little background information: we were both married when we met. I am no longer married. He is working on separating from his wife. He was a police officer when we met and has since retired due to an injury. He is involved in a...
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