Recent content by Petra Pan

Oh yes, I know that behavior too, on the points where I think he knows he can't outright forbid me to do something, he uses emotional manipulation, trying to make me feel low or even guilty about how much he pays, or creating a bad atmosphere (I guess that is what acquiesce is) to make me not do...

@Dee Morris Yeah, that's what I have started to realize, but they ( the codependent ones) disguise it so good, having you think you are the sick one, he is the 'amazing most supportive boyfriend' (yes, that is actually his words about himself) because he pays for rent and all when I am sick. The...

@Dee Morris, Oh wow, it makes so much sense for me, thank you! I am having quite the same experience, only my therapist is one of the few he doesn't believe I have an affair with, only because she is a woman. But friends back from home, (I am not from London originally, so all my close friends...

Yes! The alarm clocks started ringing when I heard his ex was borderline (pattern pattern!) and again when my T brought him in to explain triggers in PTSD, and he seemed to show no real anger towards the ppl who had hurt me, that's when I realized oh lord, this guy have not given a thought to...