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Save our soldiers No meds no backlash no permanentr records Our men are afraid of the shame of ptsd These guys understand this

Please call save our soldiers Please. X

I read he had locked himself in the kitchen, and has made threats to hurt himself He has other illnesses on top of ptsd You said you were scared How scared? You said you are unsure if you're enabling his behaviour Sorry, but if you're scared, and he's making threats of harm - are you really...

You're UK Great - me too Call save our soldiers X

I'm new here. I have thought my husband is an abusive Bastard narc until ptsd was brought up by my padre I too - and the guys here will tell you as well - have been way too understanding of shitty behaviour Girl, your man has flipped He has a brain injury, brain injuries are very often fatal...

Oh I forgot! He wanted us both to make lists about what we don't like about each other I refused - I don't want to sit and read a list of personal insults based on projections I did it by saying that there's actually nothing about him that I don't like, that I adore him, I just don't like the...

You know what I love the most about being able to come here? Its the understanding, it's the support and its the feeling that you guys have got my back I feel safe and heard here And I'm happy to refer others here without doubt Xx

Last night I'm damn sure I was both hoovered and gaslighted simultaneously He knew our conversation was going to be about residual stress I had text him saying we needed to talk about it - and honestly wasn't expecting him to call seeing as he avoids the subject. So he rang, and that's the first...

Sweetheart,,, I honestly don't know But you must know this - you are NOT alone Read my posts, see if you recognise anything Message me if you like Xx

Yes,, he has sweats, easily irritated, not sleeping, forgetfulness, sometimes stammers, will refer to himself in third person terms, unhappy, lethargic, go's along with family stuff but there's no joy,,, says this should be the best time of his life but he's miserable and doesn't know why ---...

Family dynamics? To be honest,,, I know nothing about it I get the odd visit, I feed them, welcome them and then they leave After the shit bomb I messaged his dad, saying I am finding it hard to cope with his behaviour on my own, asking for support - it hasn't been acknowledged Head in the sand...

I'm trying my hardest to be strong No, I don't like receiving this crap I've had my days of fighting back, of shouting and demanding They''re done Maybe he is just an ass hole But I keep being told of similar behaviours from other wives on my patch (I listen, don't admit) and then after a...

Basically, he's been compartmentalising his life,,,keeping secrets,,,avoiding facing anything He has created a whole bucket full of crap, but gets Pissed at me when I stand up for myself against the bucket of crap and all the results of it. He's avoidant.

And there was this one time a couple of months ago that I was asking him what he thought about me being so confused as to why he leaves me out of decisions that affect me - and he zoned out,, , so I sat quietly for 10 minutes not saying a word and then I said "well?" And he said "well what?" So...

I am upset about having the shit bomb of his secret about our marriage being dropped and then being left on my own to deal with it Yes, he's been in touch this week (unusual) But the only thing I am told is that he never told his parents because they'd be disappointed in him - no...