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@amethist I am unable to delete mags. I followed your instruction, but it gives me error message when I do try to select and select " leave conversation "

@shimmerz how do I delete msgs in my inbox. I thought I did it

@shimmerz I will get on the phone with him either today or tomorrow? I'm having anxiety though. I think once said and done , it is either this side or the other side. You can't play both fences, and me trying to make him happy during the divorce is causing me unhappiness. Because in the big...

@ shimmerz He is going to give me the dogs but I just dont have room for them at my moms right now . Yea, I'll look the counselling centers if he refuses to Pay. Our relationship was all about me being very dependent as he took care or should I say control of everything. He doesn't listen...

@shimmerz my family is the only who knows whats going on. Friends dont undersrand ptsd and are mote gossipy versus really understanding. I dont want to deal with gossip or go through all this in front of public. I put a fake front for now. But i cry and cry . I am staying at my moms but he was...

@shimmerz @digger I found out that there is a mediation center that offers free service so I will look more into that. Should I be telling my husband that this viciousness is not me but my attorney?? I know it is hard to be on the same side as we are two parties fighting divorce but amicability...

@digger He is the one with PTSD but this whole experience has been so traumatic to me that I dont think anyone should even have to go through this .

@intothelight @Meadowsweet The attorney doesnt get paid anything as he was assigned to be by the local support group. yea, he is fighting my case, and wants the best for me. I am so torn.THis is the one of the hardest thing I had to do in my life, Not sure if i ever want to get married and I am...

@Meadowsweet I didn't choose a vicious attorney, I was ASSIGNED an attorney for PROBONO (which means for free) from the county as I cant afford one. To me amicability would be for him to continue to pay (for my physiological things such as rent, food, car etc like necessary items to get by)...

@Meadowsweet @shimmerz @intothelight Thank you, to all three of you. I have gained a lot of insight on things. As you know a little background on my case, I dont know if I am feeling normal or am I Over thinking. As of right now, even with the 2 month separation, my husband has supported me...

@Meadowsweet "You can cut off ties with a significant other if there are no children involved, with family, it depends on the family. If the family is abusive, then yes, people do cut off ties and that can free them from the abusive situation. The other way that I found, is to have something...

@shimmerz wow, I am getting deeper and deeper in touch with my feelings with your post. I have definitely contributed him in feeling that way. Because, I was ignorant to his PTSD I threw a tantrum as to why I wasn't getting any attention and lot of times, I threatened his job by complaining it...

@Meadowsweet You mentioned above in your post about you walking away from people who cause you to trigger your symptoms. Hypothetically, if those people was your significant other or a close family member who you can't just cut off ties with all together. What would it take for you to get over...

@shimmerz thanks for your kind words. He has not apologized for any of his mistakes but when I point out what he did was wrong, he says " please, don't talk about this as I feel guilty and I cant afford spiral further down in his PTSD" . I definitely feel he has ptsd issues and I also feel...

@shimmerz I almost want to be a emotionally unavailable person because I am hurting so bad that I would never want. Exptionally, I am at a better place now but there are definitely days where I am driving, I feel so hopeless , I end up crying. He said he would pay for my therapist and help...