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I would like to point out something here. There is no tone online. Tone is the sound, the infliction a person puts into their voice to convey emtions and meanings. We do not use a voice on here but instead the written word. If I don't like someone's "tone" that is me adding my own twist to what...

Today I prayed for god to be in my life and to have god's will be done. I haven't prayed in years, having no faith at all, nor did I when I prayed today. Well, some very good things happened to me concerning something I had been upset about. These good things were a complete suprise to me and...

Your very welcome. Keep us updated if you can. bec

Good for you Reclusive. Remember that learning to set boundaries is a process. Progress not perfection. One thing though; you really need to let him sufferer his own consequences. If he loses 50 lbs. then he loses that weight. If he loses too much then he might have to go to the hospital. That...

I don't like to make assumptions so.. do you have PTSD or do one of your children have it? Welcome to the forum. bec

Welcome to the forum TnD. There is a lot of wonderful and informative information here, read, read, and read some more! bec

LOL looks like it. :)

Good job! Congrats that is very awesome! ((Nicolette)) bec

What a fun merry go round! Enough with the excuses. Really now. We all have a choice. The choice is: I can do whatever it takes to get better, or not. Choose. Each person is responsible for making that choice and for making excuses. No where in this conversation have I read that trauma can only...

The women here might kill me... but I"m like the guys. It has to be pretty dramatic for me to notice if a female freind has done anything to look different. The only time I even ask how I look is if I have somewhere fancy to go and the only thing I want to know is if the colours match (I can't...

Reclusive I would suggest you head on over to the carer's section and read a few of the threads about co-dependency, enabling and setting boundaries. From what you have written you are clearly enabling him to continue acting like this. I would also highly suggest getting seperate therapists. If...

Welcome to the forum Richard. Life can get better, although it's so very hard to see when in the thick of symptoms. There is a ton of information and stories on here that you will relate to. bec

Excellent news. I hope something really good comes out of this investigation. bec

Tlight has a good point. This IS the PTSD section. This entire repeated conversation over the whole break up has been dragged out beyond reason. If you really want help, why are not in the supporter's section? You have been given extremely good advice which you have repeatedly ignored. At this...

You can not help someone who is not willing to help themselves. I really think if you stop focusing on the all the why's and start looking at what you may have learned from this you will go far. All things are for a reason or a season. Look for your reason (as in what you learned from all of...

Dear Mother, I no longer hate you. I no longer consider you. You are only a biological component that brought me into this world, nothing more. I feel sorry for you, being a sociopath. You have no idea how sick and twisted you really are and you will never know love since you are not capable of...

Thanks deer! Well I'm officially one day after I was supposed to head back home.. LOL we decided to stay for another week. There is just too many people to see and too much to get done. I am completely exhausted and realizing it's not going away. I haven't visited this much in years! No wonder...

Again I will repeat that you need to let her go. She left you and no matter how much you try to find a reason to make her wrong it's not going to change anything. Starting 20 threads with the same thing over and over again is not going to get you the answer your looking for. bec

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Welcome to the forum. Your post is the best start. The second thing to do on here is read, read, read! You will find a ton of information here. bec

It's very possible to not have emotional feelings, it's called being numb! Your trying to take the most simple concept and automatically apply it to your ex-girlfriend. Perhaps whatever your ex said is actually the truth of how it works and what she thinks/feels? Have you even considered that...

Rapala you would get much more support and insight if you post in the supporter's section. There you will learn more about our disorder from a supporters point of view along with great coping skills and boundary settings. bec

when on vacation you forget the name of where you went, where you live and constantly mix the two up when you can remember them! when talking to a friend about all the normal people, they say no one is normal and you realize your talking to a normal! ack!

Well I'm really on take it easy mode. I'm only visiting with maybe one person per day if that. I'm happy just to bomb around home and then visit with Dean and his family for the most part. I did have a meltdown 2 days ago, however, that was over an ex-girlfriends of Deans and really has nothing...

I feel sad.