What Does This Tell You?

[becvan]

Tlight has a good point. This IS the PTSD section. This entire repeated conversation over the whole break up has been dragged out beyond reason. If you really want help, why are not in the supporter's section? You have been given extremely good advice which you have repeatedly ignored. At this point it really does seem like whining and attention grabbing. Those of us with PTSD just do not have patience for this.

bec

 

[MurphyJB]

Those of us with PTSD just do not have patience for this.

bec

Those of us without PTSD don't have the patience for it either! Lol

 

[amethist]

Ironbird

These members your complaining to are all PTSD sufferers. They are correct in asking you, so far politely, to leave them alone.

Maybe now is the time to either admit defeat and let go of this completely, or come across to the Supporters Area.

You are never going to get the answers you are looking for. All you are doing is winding yourself up and everyone here more and more.

Now it is time for you to go and live your own life, and not keep going backwards and forwards with this. Cut all contact from who ever is involved with this and start again.

Amethist

 

[forcesunified]

This guy reminds me of myself. Eventually I cut all contact from the girl I was interested in (8 months ago). She's now in a relationship with somebody else after having done therapy and I'm happy for her. You need to realize that it's more than the ptsd. She just doesn't want to be with you. I realize that I'll never hear from her again and that this is probably a good thing. I think it had nothing to do with ptsd that she stopped talking to me after she told me she had ptsd. She just flat out doesn't give a shit about me and this girl doesn't give a shit about you. I can go find someone else (though I have my own anxiety disorder I'm dealing with). The best way to forget about a girl is to find another one. That was sort of my dilemma because I have a very hard time with social anxiety so I couldn't meet new people. Sounds like you have the personality to meet someone new. I know I will too eventually.

 

[ironbird]

Oh my god. This is a f*cking joke.

I was just trying to get some opinions on this kind of behaviour as it is not just associated with PTSD, that kind of low self-esteem is quite common amongst younger women. If my questions and threads bother you then its simple! Save your limited energy and don't click your mouse and open my thread!

I' am simply trying to understand some aspects of that girl which are found in most people however in her, they were at a dysfunctional level. I' am trying to actively grow as a person and learn to see this kind of bullshit before I get feelings involved in the future. I was also hoping I could express my feelings here even though I do not suffer from PTSD.

INSTEAD, I have received some black and white answers that are just assuming I'm some horny idiot who is trying to revive this relationship. Maybe if some of you ladies took a leaf out of my book and learned to find ways to express yourself instead of internalizing all of your trouble you might find some temporary relief. I had moved on before I had posted this thread, I hadn't posted on here for a while but as I explained that guy messaged me and that stirred me up.

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[amethist]

ironbird

You were given some very good advice from member's who have so much more experience of all this, yet you chose to keep coming back repeatedly asking the same question. Ignoring everything we were telling you.

Maybe now you have a 2 day ban to cool down, you will re-read everything again and take it for what it is. In my last post to you, it was suggested you go into the supporters area, but you chose to come back and keep going here, continuing to upset and annoy members who are suffering with PTSD, just as your ex is.

Amethist