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Hi @Sev welcome to the forum. I’m also a supporter. You seem like you care for this person and want a relationship with him. Every good relationship starts with honesty . That doesn’t mean you open yourself up completely. But you share what is comfortable to you. You haven’t heard from him and I...

I’m glad your thinking about counselling. I wouldn’t still be married if my husband and I didn’t go. The truth is, relationship are hard work. They have their ups and downs. To be truthful, it’s never one sided. You are both in this relationship and it takes both partners to make it work. I...

Sorry your hurting. He can only heal himself. Take a lot of time and do self care. You deserve to be valued and one day you will find someone who will. Wishing you the best.

I understand your therapy is for you and her therapy is for her. But couples therapy is for the relationship. I’m by no means saying, “ stay, if you don’t want to stay. But I will say, “It can help a lot and most of all, you both have a chance to be heard.

We all have our good days and bad days. Just take it one day at a time. On hard days, add a little more self care.

Lol, yep I’m a girl :)

Roller derby, that would be a great way to relieve stress. I would just want to be on your team :)

You have been through a lot. I’m glad your here. You have every right to be pissed. As supporters, we need help and support too. So please vent away when you need to. We will listen :)

I can understand you having mixed feelings about your dad. But you have every right to end your relationship with him. He doesn’t bring anything positive to your life. He’s a grown man, he can handle living alone. You just focus on yourself and your needs. Because a true father would stand...

Sorry your hurting and I wish you all the best. I hope all the decisions you need to make, come with ease.

You’ve been apart for a year. Nothing has changed, as much as you miss him I think you should keep it that way. It really is time to move on. Enjoy happiness, not confusion.

I know how it feels, holding in that anger. If you feel like letting it out and you need to be heard. Let it out here, we will listen. Sending hugs if you except :hug:

Hi, welcome to the forum. I hope you look around and know you have support here :)

Just know your not alone. I know how your feeling. At times it’s hard to not think it’s you. Just know, it really is PTSD. Sending support and hugs.

I do remember a bit of your posts. You have been going through a lot the last couple of months. I hope your on your own road to recovery. I know it’s hard to not feel weak at times. I think we all have our good days and bad. You still talk everyday and he is still working on himself and he...

@Swift thank you for your rely. What you said, does make sense. You have helped me understand a bit more. :hug:

Is not allowing yourself to feel happiness, accomplishments or good about yourself. Is it a symptom or is it depression?

Yes, you should set some boundaries. First is, she needs to be taking her meds and doing what she needs to do to be healthy. I see a couple of red flags. 1. She’s not taking her meds. 2. She isn’t doing what she needs to do. Her words. 3. Your not taking time for your needs. 4. Your...

Sorry your hurting. Moving on can be hard. But it can also be a new happy start. Focusing on what makes you and your daughter happy. Try new things, meet new people. Go out with friends and enjoy yourself. Sending hugs if you except :hug:

Hello @HerRock, welcome to the forum. I look forward to getting to know you.

Welcome to the forum :)

Hi Dancer055 welcome to the forum. I’m sorry your hurting. Your looking for help or some answers. I’m sure your not liking the answers your getting here. What everyone here is saying is the truth. You are living in an abusive relationship. What he has been doing is grooming you. He makes you...

@Florian7051 I’m so happy for you. Your post brought tears to my eyes. You and your wife are a strong team.

I’m glad your back, you need support to from people who understand. It’s always good, he has support from his fire brothers. My husband has very few that know. But the ones that do support him. :) It’s also nice to have a firewife- sister :hug:

Hello, welcome to the forum. I’m glad you found us. I hope from today on, you feel less alone. :)