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I hadn't realised this at the time this is a really good thread for me to read up on. I have been up to my neck recently with everything in my own life, and my sufferer currently going through lots of stressful things eg possible job loss. There seems to be one thing after another atm, however...

Thanks for the comments :) il take your advice on-board, and see how it goes.

Hey all, I dont know how to broach the subject with my partner? I feel as though I need to talk about it, but I also know I'm not the sufferer and i dont want to trigger something or make him more stressed. So beginning of the week my sufferer went to his weekly therapy session.. All normal...

I guess your right when you put it like that!!! I really proud of him for going but on the other hand dread this getting worse because I'm already pretty low. Today I had a better day, I didn't feel just as upset as I had been!! Just want to take a second to thank you all for making it a...

I feel as though that's how I will become. How do I prevent myself becoming resentful. I honestly do everything, cook clean, work, animals,laundry, sort finances while working and I fear that will happen to me!! Another thing I need to know he's changed councillor and is going more...

Come to think of it not really no, work and work colleagues is about it!! Perhaps that's something to think about spend more time apart. Maybe that was selfish on my part I obviously like spending time with him but food for thought.. Thank you!!

This is my post, if anyone will reply I can see it. I'm unsure why I posted as a guest. It must have signed me out!!!! Thanks guys

Thanks guys. This has made me feel alot better!!!

Good morning, I'm relatively new in dealing with my sufferer. We've been seeing eachother for just over a year and I've only properly educated myself in dealing with ptsd over the last 6 months or so, I'm still pretty new. If I say anything wrong I'm sorry as I said I'm still educating myself...

Hey guys, I'm just looking for some advice on jealousy of the sufferer. My partner has been diagnosed some time ago after leaving the military. His relationship before me broke down due to his partner being unfaithful. Which I understand will make anyone insecure. The reason I'm seeking advice...

I can relate to this so much, you appear to be a step ahead of me. You find it easy to.give him the space where I was putting pressure on my man to communicate (which was wrong).. I am really trying to figure it out myself as I don't know how to deal with it properly yet either. I have a feeling...

Thanks for this. Its a great help being able to speak to like people!

This is great advice, I will have a look into these. To be honest the reason I try to find a cause to his shut dows to try to pull him back.. Some days he can come round, other days there is no helping his moods, I'm now learning that I'm not responsible for how deep he goes on his bad days. I...

Hi receding moonlight, This is really helpful!! Thanks for your reply. We usually have such limited time together as he works night shift and weekends that giving him more space I didn't think would work as he usually likes to be in company.. If we see less of eachother that can make him...

No offence taken by that. I possibly haven't explained it very well, we work opposite shift patterns, so I work day shift and he works nights, we see eachother roughly 3/4 hours of the day which is why we do all of those things together or we'd literally pass like ships in the night! Thanks for...

Hi, I feel like a fraud coming on to get a little advice because comparatively to some post my story is very tame. I have read some posts in the forum and i can relate so much! So i have just joined. My partner is a PTSD sufferer and 90% of the time he has it pretty under control. The problem I...

Hi, I feel like a fraud coming on to get a little advice because comparatively to some post my story is very tame. I have read some posts in the forum and i can relate so much! So i have just joined. My partner is a PTSD sufferer and 90% of the time he has it pretty under control. The problem I...