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He keeps calling and calling, I can't block him because he always calls with an unknown number and I can't block those. I guess I have to at one point pick up and talk to him and tell him to leave me alone. This scares me because every time I tried this, he tries to talk about daily things and...

Ugh, I wish he would've found distractions in less hurtfull things.....but then again I don't think my relationship with him would've been healthy under any circumstances until he takes his therapy seriously :(

Why is he in contact with this stalker? Why on earth would he talk to her about his feelings if she's a stalker? Again, I can only speak from what I read in your posts and I dont know you or him, but reading this gives me a red flag alert...

So if he's so close with this woman that he is talking about your relationship and his feelings towards marriage, is she a mutual friend? Cause in any other case I would have my doubts about it. I'm not implying he cheated, not at all...just inding it weird that ''just a woman he talks to''...

I can answer this one question though....he's being ''protective'' because he knows he'll be coming back when he's calmed down. He's preparing his way back in. Mark my words. Ps. I put protective in quotations because that's not being protective, that covering something fishy up, whatever it...

It's so weird how so many of our exes are alike. Text book cases really. And I'm not talking about the PTSD, cause on here I learned that there are people with PTSD who know how to try to be a good person just like any of us do even though they struggle more, and also people who at least...

So correct me if I understood this the wrong way, you and bf had this fight/incident, then he leaves, then this woman gets protective over HIM and then he gets protective over YOU? Or are the 2 incidents apart from each other, I couldn't really get a clear picture...

Now he keeps sending me text messages...asking me when he can pick up his stuff.. Funny thing is he doesn't have stuff here except for a mediaplayer that he never uses at home.. I think I'm going to send it back through mail today...still going strong. So fed up. Yesterday I was thinking...

I know a lot of people that found their partners through the internet but I gotta say, I tried long ago and I'm not good at it. I have to see someone in real life to like or dislike them... I'm so happy for you you have closure...I might never get it, my ex is used to coming back every so many...

This was all I ever wanted KissingMyTeeth...all I ever fought for. I out up with everything waiting for him to get to it.... But he either lied about wanting to heal asap, or he's just too far gone and doesnt have the heart to get to therapy. He often told me he doesnt want to go to therapy...

Yes Nursenurse, that voice is there all the time. It has gotten to a point where the voice doesnt only get involved in romantic relationships, that voice is always there. Because I isolated myself so long, now this voice is also making me extremely conscious about every little detail when I'm...

I went ahead right away to read about betrayal bonds, I had never heard of it.. Kind of a shock, it explains it like a textbook case... Still find myself making excuses for him though, I still think he was a different person before the PTSD, but PSD it's no excuse to treat someone badly in this...

I know this...It's just so hard, I'm so used to him and having fun with him... Sometimes I wish we had never become lovers and stayed friends ..I'm gonna miss his friendship, he was the best at that

My ex and I were together for 3 years. The first 2 years he didnt tell me about his PTSD. He was verbally abusive, cheating, commitment phobic on the one hand. But the most fun, witty, child-like enjoyable, loving deeply on the other hand He broke up with me each time we fought, reached up to...

You've jusy explained my ex and me He did exactly what you said you did... and in the beginning he used to apologise, but later on he stopped..

Alise, I've learned that with PTSD, you shouldn't take anything personal. It's not about you, it's about what's going on in his head... I've had that too, my boyfriend would tell me he's much calmer and happier in times we were apart, but he'd always come back himself....Eventually I realized...

My thoughts exactly. I'm currently taking a break to find out what want... I realized I do want to have a happy relationship and start making some kids one day.... After 3 years I just don't see it happening any day with him :( It's addictive and ego feeding when somebody drifts but keeps...

OrangeJulius, I won't say get rid of him because I know what it's like. I have been in your EXACT position so your post made me a little sad. My ex also cheated and did (and still does) a lot of things that hurt me on the one hand, and loved (and still does) me madly and I'm the only person he...

Regardless, I've noticed that people are quick to just that the person you're with ''doesn't care about you'' the moment you tell them about an issue. My advice is to only speak about such issues with someone who you know you can trust. I talk to my mom only for example. She always tries to be...

I don't think he ever was here..I know he wanted to be, but he couldn't. It's almost as if his PTSD stood between us like a wall. Even though I was the only person ever he has told about what he's been through to cause it. :(

Dear Iworry4him, I've just come out of a 3 year relationship with a sufferer. Although he really loves me and wanted me in his life forever, he just couldn't include me. He wanted a totally different kind of relationship than what the average person finds normal. I felt alone, excluded...

I've read the book, I think I'll read it again..It's so hard because I love him and even though I'm the one who allowed him to be like this towards me, I do miss him. I wish he were someone you could have a normal conversation with and come to comprmises. I have been doing this for a long time...

Thanks BloomInWinter :)

I wish you would read before you post an answer.

I think everyone who responded got the underlying issue here except for you. You keep holding on to the ocassion of soccer. I was looking for answers about whether this behaviour was part of PTSD or not. As I stated very clearly. Not to be ''told what I want to hear''. Thanks for your input though.