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@Ayesha, we were talking about something that I am currently experiencing and she I think she felt like she was not getting it. So she asked if I would want to talk to someone else, I said I don't like talking to people. The she said it would help if I talked to someone who'd understand what I...

I just had a phone session with my t, and it sounded like she was trying to transfer me to another t. I just stopped talking and hung up the phone. It feels like I am having a panic attack. I am in tears and shaking, I wish I had someone near but I am all on my own. She is busy calling but I...

I don't think I am aggressive, I just stop talking to her and after the session I will either send her an angry email or text. She tries to encourage me to take out my anger but when I am angry I just go mute. Or I just tell her how much I hate her or how much she hates me. I think being...

Do you ever find yourself throwing tantrums in therapy? I get to be so childish around my t, throwing tantrums, sulking and etc. Does this happen to anyone else and how do you deal with it? I find it embarrassing :(

I am sorry, you deserve a therapist that will understand you and help in making you feel better.

I have not been able to tell anyone at church or in my life. If anything when I am in public I try too hard to act normal and healthy. I am not sure if I will ever open up to anyone about this. I think you are brave for even thinking of telling people in your church. I think if you are...

It made me smile that you thought of me :). Yes, I will stick to phone session. I am not comfortable changing a therapist. It takes me a long time to trust someone. She is encouraging me to get a therapist in my area but I am not ready

I have been away for about 3months, relocating was not easy. I am still struggling and some days I wish I could go back, but I have signed a binding contract with my current employer. I am still in therapy, having phone sessions with my therapist every week excluding this week because I was...

I have been reading your posts, but things were not easy so I didn't want to respond while in a bad state emotionally. I have emailed my t about this but I will not send her the link to this thread, that would mean she will have access to all my posts :nailbiting:. So I am waiting for her to...

I am really attached to my therapist and I don't know how to let go. I talk to her daily, I think about her everyday. How should I deal with this? How do I get over her? I haven't seen her in 3 weeks and I miss her so bad. How did I get myself into this? I don't think it is healthy

Reading about what each of you went through this year has made me realize that maybe my year wasn't all that bad. I lost my sister this year, I lost all the money I had in my savings and the bank is still investing. I confronted my abuser but I look at this one as an achievement even though I...

This year has been the hardest ever, but I made it. So I thought we could start a chat where we all think back of this year's greatest challenges and how we made it through. I'd like to hear your stories

I wish I had an answer to that but I have the same challenge as well :( Sorry I can't really help

@Abstract, I think I have started to look for reasons to hate her. I have sent her hateful emails hoping she'd give me a valid excuse to hate her but she replied with such kind words that it has left me even more frustrated :( I hate being attached to people because I don't know how to deal...

@scout86 you are sounding so much like my t, for a second I thought you might be her. I called her a few minutes ago and she said exactly what you wrote here. @macca thank you, you have helped me stop the tears. I convinced the little girl that it is ok and that I will still be able to talk to...

I am falling apart because I have said my goodbyes to my t today. Even though she told me it is not forever and that she will see me again and she will be in touch. I think I am having a panic attack. She gave me a book she singed with a note inside and asked me for a hug. It made me feel...

I know the first time I disclosed to my t I went into panic mode. I started researching her and never wanted to go back to therapy. She had to work hard at convincing me to come back and I am glad I told her everything. It has made me feel better. I agree with mytai and nursenurse, discuss...

Just had my last session. It was too emotional. I gave her the card. She gave me a book. And she said she was happy to do phone sessions and that she will call me when she's that side so we can have a face to face session. I always have strange hairstyles so she asked me to send her a pic of...

@Abstract I have huge abandonment issues. I think feeling abandoned is my biggest problem. @scout86, thank you. It makes me feel better to know that I will have all of you to talk to when things are hard

@WillyKat I know this sounds ridiculous but my biggest fear is her referring me to someone else. I feel that will be permanently terminating the relationship. I think it will be better if she gave my sessions over the telephone. I do not know anyone where I am going and I think it will be...

I have accepted the job in another province and I am off to starting a new life with new people. I am happy but I am also sad that I will be seeing my t for the last time tomorrow. I got her a thank you card and I wrote a few words of appreciation. I am not sure how the session will go...

@Abstract, I think that is the problem right there how do I classify it as abuse when I willingly got onto the relationship with her? She didn't force me, I made a decision as an adult to be with her. Maybe I am missing the point. My current t believes it to be abuse as well, but I understand...

The relationship with my ex t was about 6yrs ago and yes I am not the righteous one because I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years and he still doesn't know about what happened with my ex t (let he who is without sin cast the first stone) My partner has worked in a different country for a...

@Lucycat, I am not looking for a reason to end therapy. I enjoy the discussions with my t and there's a lot I am learning from her. I will still see her. I wouldn't get into a relationship with another t, even though my ex t has hurt me so bad a part of me still wants her in my life. I know...

I got the job I had applied for in a different province. They called me back today to make an offer and it was a good one. I was happy about this until I told my partner and his reaction is really stressing me. He said if I took the job then it will be the end of us and I will never see him...