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It is also the only choice for me. Angel didn't quite have that. Instead, she goes (went) through separation times. There has always been depression to a mild extent at those points. It has always helped to know that she was worth it! I guess there were fantasies to help. I think I'll...

Isolating is only a good thing if they can keep their head out of the subject mater. I know that I freak out as it approaches the anniversary of my firing (a much less serious event). I think maybe a movie marathon on something light hearted might help if they need to isolate. I haven't had...

Firefox, yes. Too many things work so much better on Firefox, so I'll just have to suffer. Computers are not just a hobby for me. Computers are my life (second to Angel).

Whitney, My biggest pain right now is that half the time when I hit back, I get stuck in a loop. No point in complaining about it with new software coming in. I just have to out live it... Bear

But is it right? Or is it something to be fought against? Bear

Hi Change, In this world, that's a great statement for anyone!:tup: Bear

Hi Moserenity, Glad you are here. Bear

God, I can't wait for the new upgrade! The hiccups are about to make me insane... Bear

Honest Drew, We don't hate you or any silliness like that! Bear

The misunderstanding really eats at me too! Bear

It's hard for them to have talked about it. They tend to think that they have hurt the person they talked to. But there is healing in the talking. At least that's my experience! Bear

Bear's Rule #2: Being bouncy, playing, and having fun are good things. They should be rewarded. Contrarian Rule: Anything that makes you more excited than me is inappropriate. Anything that puts an emphasis on you is inappropriate. The Inappropriate will be both punished and ridiculed...

Hi all, In our personal situation, I have had to re-educate my sufferer. She suffered through so many false rules from her parents, so now we have "Bear's Rules". I thought I would post some of them here. You are also welcome to publish your own home rules here (in accordance with the...

Hi NVM, Honestly, I'd say that you have been diagnosed. That you didn't accept the diagnosis is however true. We are glad that you are here. Do you ever feel like there might be memory gaps, back in your history. That's a classical component of PTSD. It doesn't always happen, but when it...

I hate to bring this up, but has he spanked the children? Been violent in front of the children? Been nasty in a way that the children would be currently upset about? If there is something that DSS would hold against him, filing the complaint against him with DSS is the most likely to prevent...

He sounds like a GOOD one. One of the best. Stick with it! Bear

How long do you think before you are ready to bring color to our lives? Bear

Yes, And force the creditor to say (in writing ) that the account can not be reopened! Angel's X reopened a closed account at BB, Charged several expensive items, and then defaulted on the account. Since she was co on the account, we had to pay back the debt. We forced them to sign an...

I know that Angel has had flashbacks that only had one sense for instance. The mind is a strange place sometimes. Bear

If it were Angel, I'd say that a new personality was starting to show up. Many of her personalities can't know what specific others have done/ are doing. One at least is totally isolated. Some suffer from PTSD, others don't. As for the seeing people, why do you think it's not a flashback...

The reviews tend to indicate that it might be better for Sufferers. However, I often find that I can read books written for sufferers and apply back to supporting. I however have not read it... Bear

JJH29, There is no excuse for hitting someone that you know has PTSD, ever. [Well maybe if they took the first swing] I haven't seen you saying that you have PTSD, but I'm thinking so. If it were me, I'd also leave a note asking him to get therapy about this. And I'd hide well enough that...

Cool! Have you posted something on what the upgrade will do?

Anthony, I messed up again. OMTH ended before I caught it. Could you help once more. Bear

That's super! Bear