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correct we both do, i have complex ptsd and i used to isolate and act like she is now without the fear more anger.

I’ve been hiding out, but seeing her yesturday triggered me. Then hearing even if i said hi she would tell me to leave her alone hurt me really bad. Having someone who asked me if she paid for tickets to Alaska would i come and told me everything then getting into a small argument about...

I told her if she says one more thing i’m going to have to block her number until she’s willing to call and actually talk to me. Because this makes me severly depressed and then angry and it makes me unstable.having your fiancee go from best partner ever to, to acting like your going to hurt...

She also refuses to rebuild that trust even if it is the case. Most couples want to work together not do this.

So your saying leaveing her alone might teach her something? I used to act like her and until my ex she left i didnt change anything.

What does she get out of any of this? I don’t need space from her, i just need the arguing and having things from a year ago randomly being held over my head and being treated like i assaulted herto wnd or her to find someone else and leave me alone.

And sometimes i just wish she would just hate me or something and leave me alone instead of acting like this. I don’t hate her it just gets old hearing about how she doesint trust me, doesint want to see me or be around then when i say find someone who you would then. She goes i’m not going to...

Makes me feel terrible, it’s like i’ve taken you off everything from spotify to barely text you and you can’t say hi to me if you see me on campus without looking like a stalker if she said to leave her alone. I’ll bring up everything from the relationship to justfy why i’m doing this and how...

I mean i don’t feel she’s a danger. I just feel like she treats me like i assaulted her and won’t call or see me because she’s not okay with that and to a point if i said hi to her when i saw her she tells me she would tell me to leave her alone because she doesint feel safe but yet doesint want...

Well, she acts afraid of me for some reason, like even saying hi to she’s not okay with and says she doesint feel safe. I have no idea why after knowing me so long.

never read it but i will, saw her today wanted to say hi but didn't texted her and said i saw her and she said she would of just told me to leave her alone and said she didn't feel comfortable or safe seeing me for some reason. but she doesint want me to leave or stop talking to her but i don't...

i think your right, i used to act like her in everyway, i didn't learn until my last partner left. i was cold, blamed her and isolated for months and it was unfair. until she completely cut me out i never noticed all the toxic behaviors i had and stoped blaming anything and anyone for my own bad...

so should I just stop trying to talk to her and just consider her out of my life? she says things like " i want to come back just speak to me normally until I'm ready to come back but i don't know when I'll be ready to see you." but she seems to push when i speak to her and then starts...

What’s awhile? Months? Years? I don’t really understand how you can be extremely close then they take you off everything and pretend you never existed.

I don’t have a issue with the relationship just the fact it’s been two months with little communication and her removing me on social media to spotify like i’m her enemy. Which also triggers my abandonment.

Yea, it’s the first time. She seems numb when she’s usually very emotional and talkative. She keeps emphasising she’s coming back but needs time and space and all these negative thoughts won’t go away and she needs to get away from everyone.

Correct claiming it’s being afraid and needs to clear her head and she’s isolating.

We were together feb 2017- june 2018. The break happened right after the stupid arguement which was june, she broke it off the last day of the break she asked for.

Yes we were, we were planing on getting married this may.

i'm just suprised this came out over a year later together and being extremely close.

i think i tolerate it because she used to be a very nice caring and was the grounder between us. she would tell me i need to communicate and not isolate and talk about my feelings in a positive manner and she was extremely open and cared about anything that bugged me and used to always be there...

i would not tolerate this if she did not have ptsd. she blamed it on hurting to much to see me on there when it's a music streaming app. but her taking me off it i saw it as another connection cut and triggering me. when i told her it does she just goes it's just spotify and i said then just...

Hello, I'm new to this forum but have been reading it the past few months. I have been dating someone with PTSD and she has been slowly pulling away. it started with cancelling dates and saying she was sick and then would say i shouldn't be angry about it. last June i caught her in a lie and...