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Fadeaway, Was the account, a joint account, or your individual account? If it was a joint account. Then it can't be proven that he drained the account with malicious intent. But, If it was your personal account that he managed to gain access to. Then you could go after him for theft.

List just your health problems on the bracelet. With the ID you normally carry, list your emergency contact info. The reason being. Because your emergency contact info is too long to list on the bracelet.

My heart goes out to you.

Just to clarify(in case your mistaken; maybe I am misunderstanding you)I am not the saying I sent them. I agree it is rather sudden for her to send me nude pictures. But, Again, Is it her trying to get 'Validation'?

I have an (online-only) friend that Sufferer/Survivor of childhood sexual abuse. I have known them for 13yrs.. They contacted me yesterday. After not talking to me for two years. The showed me several pictures they took of themselves(I hate the term 'selfies'). My emotional reaction to the...

A friend of mine that recently finally spoke up about being sexually abused by her uncle. Was suddenly told to have a goal of, no more than four 'PTSD outbreaks' a week. I was disgusted when I heard that a local mental health hospital had dropped that on her. I am not trying to 'take over'...

I get 'triggered' too. I get 'triggered' about/when I see, things important to me going on. Anything that has an element of bias.

An update, of sorts. Apart from my saying "Hello" occasionally with no response, I have not spoken to the woman since April. But also, she still hasn't blocked me on Yahoo Messenger.

She had her fourth and final baby. Sorry the omission of that detail.

My gripe for the PTSD Sufferer that is an online friend of mine: I stuck by you when your (late)fiance, a U.S. Army lieutenant first broke up with with you back in 2004. Because he felt he had a 'premonition' that he would not come back alive from his second tour of duty in Iraq. You...

Think of it a little like carving wood. Take a piece of wood and run it across a belt sander at varying angles. Think of every time the wood is run across the belt sander more n' more, as the sufferer giving the supporter more and more entry into there hell. So they are trusting them more.

If I remember correctly, thinking back to several years ago. She had said to me, something about being easy to talk to. That I have never been combative(blocking her on Yahoo Messenger, or getting angry with her on Yahoo Voice) with her.

I did say that. But she still has an 'allegiance' to her fiance. She has not broken up with him. She only separated from him. Also, I am not the one who keeps cutting off communication, then accusing the other person of ignoring them.

Just like I thought would happen. It happened again. My online friend contacted me on Yahoo Messenger. But when I told her I might be getting married, she immediately got quiet, and hasn't said anything since.

Lbd, What he said, may be him genuinely saying that due to his PTSD, outright. At the same time, what he said, could be part of the isolation/push/pull scenario. So, Step away for some time. Watch to see what he does. My friend cut off contact three times in 2012 following her release from...

I have stayed 'friends' with my online friend. From, the same sort of stance, as a married couple, in that, even when isolate/push away. I think she is isolating now. Because she isn't talking to me. But I know this will eventually change. It always has. So I just need to ride 'isolation'...

Kristina, I have known my online friend for ten years. She told me a long time ago that she had PTSD. I have never asked her about the cause. Not because I didn't care(which I do). But because, I don't care what the cause was, while do care about her being able to reach beyond the pain...

Junebug, Thank you for telling me.

So Junebug, You mean it is easy in one direction. But hard in another direction?

Thank you for the additional perspectives!!:happy:

Solara, No it isn't confusing, now. Until you replied and gave my mind clarity, the two seemed inextricably linked.

I may have already asked in my 'Push/Pull' thread. Is isolation basically part of when the sufferer pushes people away, or can the two be separate?

Sandi, This is how I feel about my friend's PTSD. I am not clamoring to know what is the cause of her PTSD. She will tell me, when if she is ready and wants' to.

It sounds like he is putting up a wall. The closer it got to Valentines Day, the more fear he had. Despite his being a combat vet, his telling you that his brain was swollen sounds like a terribly convenient excuse. I am saying that from indirect personal experience. I had several brain...

My friend n' I have known each other for 11yrs.. In the time, the push/pull/isolation, has been repetitive. I had trouble with it the first couple of years. There was a nine-month period of time, that I took a break from communication apart from e-mail. So I didn't hear from my friend. She...