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I am very confused and hope that someone has an opinion. When my bf talked about moving out I was so hurt and confused because his reasons just didnt seem like it was worth that step back. We share so much together. Anyway Im confused because now he is home and I am so happy he is here. He said...

Hi docsmith, Welcome I just joined the forum myself as a carer! My bf served 2 tours in Iraq also and suffers from ptsd like so many others. He has all of the symptoms you have and the list goes on. Im sure you can find a lot of great info here.

Hi lost girl, I have to agree with blue eyed angel on a lot of this. When my bf moved in I learned what his triggers are and to be honest after 11 months I am still learning. I do try to make things as easy as possible by not setting him off. But I also live life. My bf doesnt like people to...

sirsir thanks I know what you mean about unresolved issues my mom passed away 2 years ago it still seems like yesterday :( however my bf came home last night im so happy and will 100% understand if he goes back.

He came home! Aww it feels so good to see him!

DLadi, I know what you mean when you say when he is here in the now you get each other. When my bf is in the now and in the mood he will ask me whats it like what he is like. Ugh its hard sometimes to tell him. I dont know about your bf but mine has dated several woman before me the longest...

Im trying not to add to my bf stress but sometimes I just dont know what to say. Four weeks ago now my bf left on what was a 3 week trip. Well one week into it he was coming back then I didnt hear from him for a couple of days. When I did hear from him he decided to stay for the other 2 weeks. I...

My bf suffers from ptsd and we have been together for 11 months today I listened to this song and the words at least for me are so right and makes sense. For me after a shut out period no matter how short or long its like these words make sense. Its like he comes back from that place in his mind...

sirsir, You have a tough choice to make i would talk to your doctor way the pro's and con's of moving. I know for my bf adjustment is very hard. As for your dream and this is my opinion only right or wrong I believe everything happens for a reason. maybe you had the dream because this is a new...

My bf served 2 tour in Iraq. I will tell you this about our situation he loves kids between the 2 of us we have 4. At one point we were thinking that we should have a child together when the time was right. Then there are a few things that have happend to make be in limbo. He obviously shuts me...

In my opinion I guess it depends on his ptsd and what things make it worse. When i ment my bf he wanted to down the road have a common child. I have 2 and he has 2. I guess over the months my opinion has changed Im not sure it would be best. There are days that he is so down. And I now know that...

I am very new to this site but all this information is the best so I thank everyone on here! In my opinion I think yes it can work if no one has cheated and there has been no abuse. My bf said to me a month ago that he felt like there was so much damage now that he didnt know anymore. when I...

Hi sirsir, My bf suffers form ptsd and tbi he is also a purple heart recipient he was on his second tour in Iraq when a bomb went off by his hum v. Today is 100% disabled vet. And like you he didnt get help right away. He said he was scared to he also takes meds and doesnt want to but he knows...

Nicolette I am very sorry to here about your father. It must have been tough. My mom passed away 2 years ago from lung cancer. DLadi please do not ever feel as if you are butting in I value every opinion good or bad. I came here to have people to talk to that have been through this and that...

Thanks Nicollette! I see and know everything you are saying but I didnt move to the couch just to follow him I did it because he didnt like me upstairs he gets upset when I want to go up there. I understood him moving the to the chair however he has anger about this he is frustrated that he...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. We have been through the best and worst of things together. I love him with all my heart he is that other half that makes me whole. When I met him he was up front and honest about his ptsd and asked me to read about it. I did and after...