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Hi @Sweetpea76- Thank you for this response. I am re- quoting it at this point as it truly best describes my personal experience as supporter and with much respect I agree with you. Very grateful for all the detailed and very insightful responses on this thread of Communication.It is very well...

Love the wit and how you get your point across. Again -thanks for insight . Quite cool to expand the two cents( knowledge ) I have as a supporter ;-) Of course you may ask. Thanks for the question @Shaylee- see below- I refer to Friday's first sentence (response to thread just after yours)...

Freshly baked bread and a hot coffee.

Thank you SHAYLEE - there is a LOT of insight here for those who are puzzled and lacking awareness of how limited " communication" can get in your situation. All your points are valid and respected - intact very,very educational.And heard with much empathy and sympathy. Also - I would "have...

Hello- sounds confusing and sad. It must be so frustrating.Can relate. What you feel as a supporter is normal. what you desire is reasonable. You are human - you will be concerned.Unless you are a robot with no feelings. Occasionally it can get overwhelming to do the 'waltz' and the guessing...

This one is important - you've hit gold. See @maybeiamabear, sometimes we build boundaries with the wrong materials - whats appropriate for the time? Stone(walling)? Barbed wire? Picket Fencing?Iron cladding?Titanium reinforcements? Electric fence ? I think you get the picture:-) See , thing is...

Too funny - we are twinning in beverages today:-)

Thank you - that is gpure genius- your way of articulating and resonating the a gentle point ( which was never meant to offend anyone on the planet )is profound.Thank you. Absolutely right - to an extent where they have voiced troubling facts and thus - yes you would think they have self harmed...

Sounds like both are scared of love(?) Was she sacred to show love to you or are you scared of falling deeply in love ?

Hi maybeIamabear - are you okay ? Have you had any hopeful moments or days?

Brilliant question-would like to see what answers and advice presents. I feel for you - it is painful -you are so patient and sound like a nice person .Heard a very similar story - she was a girl in her twenties ended it two weeks before the wedding .Everything was perfect. Not diagnosed with...

@Sideways - hmmmm, how would you like your response interpreted please?

THIS post is solely in support of supporters and much respect for genuine supporters ( since they suffer just as much ) To support and to tolerate are chalk and cheese. THE quote, quoted above is what most supporters desire. Nailed it. IT IS unfair on the supporter as much as it would be...

"We must all have pie- stress cannot exist in the presence of pie"- David Mamet.

I can and I know have supported a very elusive and phantom-like sufferer who could not appreciate it.

Wow- thats deep.

Not heard this in years - this is random - so welcome to my weekend crazy! It's Friday - everybody gotta love today ! Even if deep in thought -trying to keep up with the lyrics speed, intonation, high pitch and rhythm of this(possibly annoying ) song ,just zaps you out of reality and transports...

A fluffy cloud-like donut and a coffee (comfort food)

"Remember to live while you are busy surviving " - unknown

@OceanSpray, So true.

Hi beautiful community - this is light and relaxed - I will begin - if anyone would like to add to this - please do. See the mountains, hear bellbirds ,smell coffee, taste fairy floss( cotton candy), touch a fluffy pet.

"There were sticks ,plenty of sticks and bark" - Brumbyinthe sunshine. “I’ll dream each night of some version of you, that I might not have but I did not lose” - Noah Kahan -genius.

Hi @Sven- please keep reaching out to this forum - there are some honest insights and those who have walked the same walk. I hear you say: 1)You felt happy 2)Feel that you have realised your own attachment issues 3) Felt connected 4) feel consumed with grief 5) Feel abandoned 1,2&3 are so...