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Congratulations..your fairy tale gives me hope, thank you! I am very happy for both of you, enjoy each other...You have both worked very hard to achieve your happiness.

After reading everyones stories and talking to some others I am not as worried about this and will deal with it if and when it becomes an issue. I do not know if this is just because I know something is wrong or just because I am having a symptom filled day but I have a lot of cramping and have...

I can totally relate as I am experiencing paralyzing sadness and grief right now....

Yes, that you are! I think it ties in with you perfectionism and your ability to relate and want to help others. It is a good trait to have one that I used to have but have lost along the way...

I used to be so social and active, outgoing and self-confident able to supervize people and teach a group of 48 students. Since my dx and the symptoms...isolation is about as bad as it could be. I mostly just want to be left alone. Each and every social outting takes alot of thought..before...

Thanx cat and She, actually when I had my pap two weeks ago I was wearing my patch and had taken breakthrough pain meds as well and was amazed at how much it did not hurt, hardly felt it at all. So...you guys are making me feel better, I guess this is the one time that I will be thankful that I...

I have read and horrible things about craigslist. Wow...what kinds of things did you write Tlight? Just curious if you don't mind me asking. Mina how much is match.com. I could not beleive when they actually wanted 300.00 after filling out the questionnaire for eharmony, I was really shocked...

Thanx guys.....One day at a time and I just need to deal with it! It really is a pain in the but though...no pun intended. Ya..hopefully I will disasociate. I have a good friend that already said she would come with me, I took her to hers about three years ago. How long did the procedure...

I just got a call from my doctor. I have abnormal squamous cells and she recommends a colposcopy. I am waiting for a call for the referral to the gynecologist. I am scared to death. I know this is common but I was just wondering if anyone else has had this and how did you cope? Going to the...

Thanx Mina....I like the positive stories!

Yep...care too much about others to the point of not caring enough about myself...would give anyone the shirt off my back.

Me too! I need heavy...love my duvet, just heavy enough.

Thanx for the info! I think I am still jumping the gun...I think I need to take a self confidence course! I have been on POF but ya..alot of leaches. I have never heard of OKcupid..thanx.

It is hard to be in a normal relationship. I often feel like my PTSD just set the tone for the failure of my second marriage. It was wonderful at the beginning (although I have learned that was the honeymoon period) he would say I love you and say nice things and I would look at him like he...

Thanx Inouk...I get the back hugging thing...used to freak me out. My son always says.."Can I have a hug" I am not sure if I taught him this purposely but that helps too. I guess I am just feeling alone and frustrated. Maybe one day I will find someone that is worth the wait..just have not...

Thats it Iam..a roller coaster...I am sure many of us want to jump off many, many times!

Your welcome....need to spell check better!!!

Welcome...It sounds like you are in so much pain. My marriage the secind time was very similar to your..I told him too to have a sexual affair. He never forgave me for that...he said that hurt him very much. When I was dx I was working as a nurse, taking care of my son, alone and struggling...

It is hard to deal with daily...I was in a professional occupation too as a nurse and I had to go off because of it. I think I might be able to go part time now but still am not sure. Are you able to still work?

Yep..made sense, I feel my nose start to burn and hold them back too!

I found that writing things out when I was feeling so bad and then giving it to my therapist helped tremendously.

Thanx t light...right now it is still hard for me to realize that there are people out there that will be nice and supportive and NOT throw me away like a piece of garbage when the going got rough...I got thrown away. Emotionally I don't want to have that happen again..I know I am learning more...

Miss PD...yep...that is me! I am only 38 and have been married twice, actually by 28, married twice. I picked terrible, horrible men. I took the good with the bad because I had experienced so much bad I do not think I deserved any better. Now at least I know there is such a thing as a...

There was a poll I read earlier about being touched...for anyone that replied that they do not like to be touched...How do you maintain a healthy relationship with a person of the opposite sex. If you ever experienced this and are now in a relationship....How did you manage to overcome this or...

I can so relate to this post too. There are the bad parts that I hate..though I am a sucker when she IS really nice to me.